Tuesday, July 20, 2010

29 and single?

i'm 29 and single, in the environment i am right now people keep asking why still single, hurry up, u need to find the right guy..., does this happen to u ( other 29, single females) too or its the environment i am in?

29 and single?
Well hun, I am 22 and single and Its freaking me out. My issue is Im in the military, and these young men and women are far away from home, and want a family and get married. Since the young women and men have this in common, everyone is married! Im single, Im 22, im pretty attractive, smart responsible, but I dont want to rush. When I am 29, you know what? I hope I am where I need to be so that the one I am meant to be with, is going to be with me. Dont rush. Why get married at 24 and learn the guy is an irresponsible, loser who has dreams and not goals and end up learning he is not the one after all, then when you are 29, 30 ish and know what to expect from a man. This is what I am going through, but I will not settle with someone who doesnt LOVE me so much and I dont feel secure with. Honey wait, and realize you are blessed and beautful!
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Reply:Join the club. It's even worse if were a city girl who moved to the country 29 y.o and still single, everyone has their own click, and I've been living in the country for 7 years now.....
Reply:i work with a lady who is ten years on you and gets the same treatment ( hurry up , you'll miss the boat etc. )


she is perfectly happy in her environment and doesn't need to be hassled -- fate has it that there is someone for everyone , it's just a question when that event will take place .


hang in there and don't be 'bullied ' good luck.
Reply:I don't think age should play a role in if we are single or not. The longer you wait to get married, the better chance it has of working out, and in a society where the divorce rate is higher then the fifty percent, one has to wonder if being twenty nine and single is not perfect. I think you have the cat by the tail. I really didn't know what I wanted in a spouse until I was at least thirty. Enjoy life and don't worry that those around you question it. You will find your knight one day.
Reply:It happens to everyone as they start growing up, people tell them Nu, when are you going to get married? Even if someone was younger than 29 they still get pushed.
Reply:I am 31 and single. wanna trade pics and contact info? Oh wait, I'm not single... I'm divorced. hence the name, "Leftovers"


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