i have a lilttle enquiry to make and thus i want to know if one is applying for a visa to study in european country, do the the consulate ask whether u are married or single and if they do ask what should be the best answer, single or married? which one makes it easier for the visa? does been married hamper one's chances of getting a visa? thanks for your advise.
Single or married student? any advise?
tell the truth, it is the best answer.
Reply:just answer honestly. if u get caught later (since they do their reserches) u risk to get ur visa denied.
this may effect the possibility to get a visa for any other country.
Reply:If they did I'd say give an honest answer. You don't want to get in trouble with the law for giving false information.
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Single or not?
well theres a girl and shes totally into me and im into her. but i want to stay single. i got out of a bad 4 months relation ship and found that i like being single better. i dont like being tied down. but im afraid if i dont ask her out she might run off with someone ealse...
what should i do? btw im 15 shes 14. she more experianced then me. i'm waiting till marrige for sex. and she want to do everything except sex.
Single or not?
tell her you like her but tell her you're also still getting over your previous relationship. she'll understand but dont wait too long you might just lose her.
Reply:ask her out
Reply:You could either tell her that you arent ready for a relationship yet but you want to be freinds until then or you could go ahead and ask her out and when ever she wants to do anything that you arent ready yet then just tell her. She will understand if she really cares about you. You will probly be surprised at what she wants to do if she is too quick you should tell her and she will understand and if she dont then she is a *****.
Reply:i would say stay single till you completely get over the effects of the bad relationship... so that those effect wont interfere with the future relationship... Keep her around but do not lead her on ... you might hurt her ....Let her know u are interested to keep her around and when you are ready ask her out
Reply:Well, if you really like this girl and get along with her great, then why not start a relationship with her. Good relationships should never feel like a burden, it should actually make you feel better. And like you said, you're both into eachother, so why not?
Reply:be in an open relationship with her
Reply:You should wait, befriend her, but wait... unless you're not necessarily hurting anymore from your previous relationship...
Try going on a date first and if you both enjoy yourselves, then you should totally go for it...
Age shouldn't matter in a relationship (of course, as long as the age doesn't surpass 5 years)...
If you really want to be with her and think you have the chance, then go for it, because when you don't, you'll leave yourself with the doubt and the "What ifs"...
Reply:You like being single....you want to be alone....so whats the problem if you don't ask her out she may leave with someone else........great, then you will be single and alone....whats so hard about that.
Reply:so do everything besides sex then have fun dude this chance only comes once in a life time dude and then ur a least some what experienced for the person who u want to marry
Reply:i agree with Captain S. dude what ur trying to say is u want to be able to have this girl on the side cause u liek being single but u dont want her to run off with someone else. U need to eat her box and make her yours
Reply:tell her that u just got out of a reltaionship and hopefully shell understand and girls want to go out someone and she probably wont tie u down see after 2 days if u want to be with her if u dont like her u dont hav 2 stick woth her its not like u have to get married or u can just like flirt with her ask her out on a date but it doesnt mean u 2 are dating and then u 2 can like hug kiss and talk or whatever u want to do
i hoped i helped
good luck
Reply:If you have the time later on please answer this question for me because I really want to know: How do you have a "bad, four month relationship" at 14?
Reply:i think you should go for her,because you may not find another girl like that.and if understands that you dont wana be tied down n stuff,then go for her.but who knows,you may really like her,and like it better than being single! GOOD LUCK! xoxo~kelli
Reply:You should ask her out, not all girls are the same and she probably won't tie you down and keep you from everyone. Just ask her out, see how the first few days go, and if you don't like her and prefer being single you can always stop dating.
Reply:I think that you went through a hard relationship and were recovering. Now, you're beginning to want to move on. Remember- every relationship is different. I would ask her out. Best of luck.
what should i do? btw im 15 shes 14. she more experianced then me. i'm waiting till marrige for sex. and she want to do everything except sex.
Single or not?
tell her you like her but tell her you're also still getting over your previous relationship. she'll understand but dont wait too long you might just lose her.
Reply:ask her out
Reply:You could either tell her that you arent ready for a relationship yet but you want to be freinds until then or you could go ahead and ask her out and when ever she wants to do anything that you arent ready yet then just tell her. She will understand if she really cares about you. You will probly be surprised at what she wants to do if she is too quick you should tell her and she will understand and if she dont then she is a *****.
Reply:i would say stay single till you completely get over the effects of the bad relationship... so that those effect wont interfere with the future relationship... Keep her around but do not lead her on ... you might hurt her ....Let her know u are interested to keep her around and when you are ready ask her out
Reply:Well, if you really like this girl and get along with her great, then why not start a relationship with her. Good relationships should never feel like a burden, it should actually make you feel better. And like you said, you're both into eachother, so why not?
Reply:be in an open relationship with her
Reply:You should wait, befriend her, but wait... unless you're not necessarily hurting anymore from your previous relationship...
Try going on a date first and if you both enjoy yourselves, then you should totally go for it...
Age shouldn't matter in a relationship (of course, as long as the age doesn't surpass 5 years)...
If you really want to be with her and think you have the chance, then go for it, because when you don't, you'll leave yourself with the doubt and the "What ifs"...
Reply:You like being single....you want to be alone....so whats the problem if you don't ask her out she may leave with someone else........great, then you will be single and alone....whats so hard about that.
Reply:so do everything besides sex then have fun dude this chance only comes once in a life time dude and then ur a least some what experienced for the person who u want to marry
Reply:i agree with Captain S. dude what ur trying to say is u want to be able to have this girl on the side cause u liek being single but u dont want her to run off with someone else. U need to eat her box and make her yours
Reply:tell her that u just got out of a reltaionship and hopefully shell understand and girls want to go out someone and she probably wont tie u down see after 2 days if u want to be with her if u dont like her u dont hav 2 stick woth her its not like u have to get married or u can just like flirt with her ask her out on a date but it doesnt mean u 2 are dating and then u 2 can like hug kiss and talk or whatever u want to do
i hoped i helped
good luck
Reply:If you have the time later on please answer this question for me because I really want to know: How do you have a "bad, four month relationship" at 14?
Reply:i think you should go for her,because you may not find another girl like that.and if understands that you dont wana be tied down n stuff,then go for her.but who knows,you may really like her,and like it better than being single! GOOD LUCK! xoxo~kelli
Reply:You should ask her out, not all girls are the same and she probably won't tie you down and keep you from everyone. Just ask her out, see how the first few days go, and if you don't like her and prefer being single you can always stop dating.
Reply:I think that you went through a hard relationship and were recovering. Now, you're beginning to want to move on. Remember- every relationship is different. I would ask her out. Best of luck.
Single or dating?
Which one are you? Single and happy, Single and sad, Dating and happy, or Dating and sad?
Single or dating?
okey dokey i am dating and i am happy
Reply:single and sad i want john lol missyyyyyyy
Reply:single and sad i want my ex back
Reply:taken and happy (:
i wouldnt call it dating cuz im only in 8th grade and people dont really "date" haha i know weirdd.
Reply:single and sad
Reply:I just got back wih my ex :) happy as hell
Reply:Am I the only one who's single and happy?!?
Single or dating?
okey dokey i am dating and i am happy
Reply:single and sad i want john lol missyyyyyyy
Reply:single and sad i want my ex back
Reply:taken and happy (:
i wouldnt call it dating cuz im only in 8th grade and people dont really "date" haha i know weirdd.
Reply:single and sad
Reply:I just got back wih my ex :) happy as hell
Reply:Am I the only one who's single and happy?!?
Single Mom Support Group in So Cal or online support group?
Does anyone know of any single mom (parent) support groups here in So Cal (I am in Orange County). I would be a big help as part of my therapy is to find a single mom support group and become an active participant (and yes it is a want as well). Thanks for all the help!
Single Mom Support Group in So Cal or online support group?
I don't live in your area, but my suggestion would be to call around to some of the local churches. I know some of the churches where I live have a solid single parent network. Also talk to people at the library and also your children's school. I'm sure your kids will know who of their friends and classmates are single parents. You could even try the Red Cross, the local gyms, and some of the child care centers. Another option is to talk to people at the local Veterans Clinic. Often times support groups stem from spouses left behind by a serviceman. Best of luck to you, and hope you find a great group.
If nothing else, start your own.
americal dental
Single Mom Support Group in So Cal or online support group?
I don't live in your area, but my suggestion would be to call around to some of the local churches. I know some of the churches where I live have a solid single parent network. Also talk to people at the library and also your children's school. I'm sure your kids will know who of their friends and classmates are single parents. You could even try the Red Cross, the local gyms, and some of the child care centers. Another option is to talk to people at the local Veterans Clinic. Often times support groups stem from spouses left behind by a serviceman. Best of luck to you, and hope you find a great group.
If nothing else, start your own.
americal dental
Single Dads in their 40's?
I am a single mother 40 dating a single father in his 40's. I am having a hard time figuring out if he is really interested in me. We communicate via email, texting and chatting. He only calls me when he is on his way to get me for a date. Our dating is on the sly since we don't want to involve our children in the dating process and we both have custody of our children. How do I know if he really likes me of if he is just in it for the sex.
Single Dads in their 40's?
If all he wants to do is have sex, then that's your answer.
Reply:if he happens to be a capricorn, theres your answer.
Reply:for sex only
go on till he is convenient to you
Reply:Tell him that you want to make this relationship right for you so you'll be celibate till you're married...see how he reacts..
You didnt really mention if you were interested in him or if you're just in it for the sex...hahahaha
Single Dads in their 40's?
If all he wants to do is have sex, then that's your answer.
Reply:if he happens to be a capricorn, theres your answer.
Reply:for sex only
go on till he is convenient to you
Reply:Tell him that you want to make this relationship right for you so you'll be celibate till you're married...see how he reacts..
You didnt really mention if you were interested in him or if you're just in it for the sex...hahahaha
Single mother, one child age four, estimated $2854.00 back sound right?
I am a 26 year old single female with a 4 year old child. I did a tax calculator, I put Head of Household, and claimed 1 dependant. I did not have any federal tax held out of paychecks and only made 12,000 in wages. I put daycare expense, 401K, and state taxes on deductions. It says I will get back $2854.00. I have not idea if this sounds right. It seems like single mothers usually get more than that.??? Can someone let me know if this sounds correct.
Single mother, one child age four, estimated $2854.00 back sound right?
Without more information it is hard to say if that amount is correct. The IRS, in conjunction with AARP, offers a free tax service called VITA for seniors and folks with low incomes. The service is free and you don't have to be a member to take advantage of the service. Check the AARP web-site or www.irs.gov to find a site near you.
Reply:With $12,000 and 1 child, your EIC should be $1266. With no Fereral withholding, you would need an additaional $1588 in refundable credits to receive a $2854 'refund'. Something sound wrong to me.
Reply:Nope. You're a little off
I have built a superquick tax calculator.
It's more like $2892. You forgot your Federal Telephone Tax Refund. It's $40 for you!
EIC = 2747 Additional Child Tax Credit = 105 Tel Tax = 40
Reply:I honestly don't know much about taxes, but I have a child as well. It seems like every single year, we get an estimate... we estimate ourselves (we file independently) and then we get an estimate from H%26amp;R and when we finally DO get our taxes back, it's always much less than both estimates. So all I want to say is: don't depend on any estimate you get. Just wait until the check is in your hands before you start spending it in your head. To be completely honest, $2,854 sounds much too high if you made $12,000 in wages, but I could be wrong.
Sorry I'm not much help with the question, I just want you to have a heads-up.
Single mother, one child age four, estimated $2854.00 back sound right?
Without more information it is hard to say if that amount is correct. The IRS, in conjunction with AARP, offers a free tax service called VITA for seniors and folks with low incomes. The service is free and you don't have to be a member to take advantage of the service. Check the AARP web-site or www.irs.gov to find a site near you.
Reply:With $12,000 and 1 child, your EIC should be $1266. With no Fereral withholding, you would need an additaional $1588 in refundable credits to receive a $2854 'refund'. Something sound wrong to me.
Reply:Nope. You're a little off
I have built a superquick tax calculator.
It's more like $2892. You forgot your Federal Telephone Tax Refund. It's $40 for you!
EIC = 2747 Additional Child Tax Credit = 105 Tel Tax = 40
Reply:I honestly don't know much about taxes, but I have a child as well. It seems like every single year, we get an estimate... we estimate ourselves (we file independently) and then we get an estimate from H%26amp;R and when we finally DO get our taxes back, it's always much less than both estimates. So all I want to say is: don't depend on any estimate you get. Just wait until the check is in your hands before you start spending it in your head. To be completely honest, $2,854 sounds much too high if you made $12,000 in wages, but I could be wrong.
Sorry I'm not much help with the question, I just want you to have a heads-up.
Single mums?
How many of you guys would truly be interested in a single mother?honestly?
I`m 24 and been left a single mum and just dont imagine any guy would want to be around someone elses child.
Single mums?
soooo not true!!!!
and you know it lady!!!haha
as it happens the world is'nt full of assholes only a selected few!!which probibly happens to be the few we've met!!lol a man should like you for who u are and not what u have.if someone really really likes u then he has to be prepared that you come with a package!!and as for not being able to bring up someone elses kids!!it's easy ave done it and a kno of a lot more people who has too!!then again a suppose ma circumstance's are well different to your's but they arn,t mine and i have them.
so any one out there that won't go out with someone because they have children there is really only 1 word for use!!!!
SHALLOW!!!!
cause think of it this way one day use might be in the same fkn boat!!!!
Reply:There are loads of people.
Just you make sure that you don't introduce new men to your child unless you have been seeing them for a while and can trust them.
It confuses the children as to who these 'new' guys are and makes things for the kids unstable.
More importantly, you will need to ensure that you trust the person, weird people pray on the 'vulnerable single mother' who feels no one else will want her... Protect your child from these predators.
That's my advice really. Your new man will come when the time is right.
Reply:no probs on that. i have dated and lived with a single mum....she has 2 children...and i can honestly say that it is the best thing that happened to me. when i was divorced my children were practily grown up, and it gave me a chance to give her children the same attention i once gave mine. i can now sit back and see what they have achieved, and wonder if i was not present woulod they have turned out the the way they did. take heart there are a number of us fellas who would welcome an instant family . so good luck and take your choice wisely.xx
Reply:what the question shouldn't be about who would want to date you ...i was once a single mom no problem getting dates...only problem was finding the right man that deserved to be around my great daughter.....it took a little while to find the right person and we've been together for 14 years now....woman to woman .....always present yourself as self sufficient and confident never let a man know you are not confident in yourself this is just asking for the wrong type of guy ....always put you children before a man....i know i will take alot of heat for this answer but this is my belief.....your b/f is your b/f for now that could some day change,but your children are your children for life......
Reply:I'm 21 yo graduate. Dating the woamn isn't really a problem (providing she's great, which I presume you are), it's just sometimes the commitments needs juggling about.
I may date ya.
Reply:dated single mum be4 , was ok but she didn't want any more kids
Reply:I've been out with several single mums. If you like/love someone then you accept them as they are baggage and all (bad choice of phrase I know) - what I mean is the woman comes as a package with her child/ren. If someone doesn't want to be with you just because you have a child, then they really aren't that interested anyway. You definitely shouldn't be writing yourself off!
Reply:Wouldn't be interested atall to be honest.
Reply:sometimes i think that i wouldn't want a single mum because i feel like a last resort:
i.e. they didn't want me when they didn't have kids.
but if i met a nice girl whose kid was still quite young and might want another there's no reason why not.
Reply:no offense, but i wouldn't.
there are guys that don't mind though, but you have to watch out though, they are most of the time just for hooking up, and think that single moms are up for anything because they are despirate.
just to much bagage, most guys go looking for a woman, not a kid, plus the drama of having another guy involved in your life, plus knowing that he screwed the heck out of you many occasions, or if the father died, now the guy has to deal with the emotional trauma stuff.
most guys will just pass on all of that unless they are looking just for sex.
Reply:Hi hun. I too am a single mom and I could write a book on the subject of single parents and dating.
Please do not let a man tell you that your children are BAGGAGE, children are precious gifts. A lot of men are bitter towards single moms because a lot of these women could not let go of what happened to them in their past relationships, so they do not know how to handle themselves when a normal guy comes into their lives.
Remember to never put a man before your children it is not worth it!
It is important that you do not introduce any man you are dating to you children until you are completely committed to one another. Children do not understand what dating means and it saves you a lot of heart aches.
You are going to find more men out there that are only looking for a free ride because they think we are in desperate need of a man, and that we want nothing more than sex. A lot of these men are liars, already married, and are ONLY looking for sex.
I do want to say that there are a lot of sincere men out there that know a loving, strong, sincere single mom is the way to go because we have a head on our shoulders, and we are NOT into the dating games, and we know what we want in our lives.
Stay strong mom and things will work out to your advantage. You will meet that wonderful, sincere man that loves you and your children.
Reply:I've date a single mom before. Got along great with the child, we were just too different. I think there are tons of guys out there that would date a single mom. Just be careful, because like any other women, there are guys that are attracted just because they think they are easy. But don't give up yet, I am sure you will find the right guy. :)
Reply:dont be silly , if the guy likes u he ll take on the child
Reply:Lots of dads don't want to be around their own child either! I'd date a single mum. I'd expect that she'd have fewer spare hours than a childless lady and more often exhausted, but needn't impact on us.
I`m 24 and been left a single mum and just dont imagine any guy would want to be around someone elses child.
Single mums?
soooo not true!!!!
and you know it lady!!!haha
as it happens the world is'nt full of assholes only a selected few!!which probibly happens to be the few we've met!!lol a man should like you for who u are and not what u have.if someone really really likes u then he has to be prepared that you come with a package!!and as for not being able to bring up someone elses kids!!it's easy ave done it and a kno of a lot more people who has too!!then again a suppose ma circumstance's are well different to your's but they arn,t mine and i have them.
so any one out there that won't go out with someone because they have children there is really only 1 word for use!!!!
SHALLOW!!!!
cause think of it this way one day use might be in the same fkn boat!!!!
Reply:There are loads of people.
Just you make sure that you don't introduce new men to your child unless you have been seeing them for a while and can trust them.
It confuses the children as to who these 'new' guys are and makes things for the kids unstable.
More importantly, you will need to ensure that you trust the person, weird people pray on the 'vulnerable single mother' who feels no one else will want her... Protect your child from these predators.
That's my advice really. Your new man will come when the time is right.
Reply:no probs on that. i have dated and lived with a single mum....she has 2 children...and i can honestly say that it is the best thing that happened to me. when i was divorced my children were practily grown up, and it gave me a chance to give her children the same attention i once gave mine. i can now sit back and see what they have achieved, and wonder if i was not present woulod they have turned out the the way they did. take heart there are a number of us fellas who would welcome an instant family . so good luck and take your choice wisely.xx
Reply:what the question shouldn't be about who would want to date you ...i was once a single mom no problem getting dates...only problem was finding the right man that deserved to be around my great daughter.....it took a little while to find the right person and we've been together for 14 years now....woman to woman .....always present yourself as self sufficient and confident never let a man know you are not confident in yourself this is just asking for the wrong type of guy ....always put you children before a man....i know i will take alot of heat for this answer but this is my belief.....your b/f is your b/f for now that could some day change,but your children are your children for life......
Reply:I'm 21 yo graduate. Dating the woamn isn't really a problem (providing she's great, which I presume you are), it's just sometimes the commitments needs juggling about.
I may date ya.
Reply:dated single mum be4 , was ok but she didn't want any more kids
Reply:I've been out with several single mums. If you like/love someone then you accept them as they are baggage and all (bad choice of phrase I know) - what I mean is the woman comes as a package with her child/ren. If someone doesn't want to be with you just because you have a child, then they really aren't that interested anyway. You definitely shouldn't be writing yourself off!
Reply:Wouldn't be interested atall to be honest.
Reply:sometimes i think that i wouldn't want a single mum because i feel like a last resort:
i.e. they didn't want me when they didn't have kids.
but if i met a nice girl whose kid was still quite young and might want another there's no reason why not.
Reply:no offense, but i wouldn't.
there are guys that don't mind though, but you have to watch out though, they are most of the time just for hooking up, and think that single moms are up for anything because they are despirate.
just to much bagage, most guys go looking for a woman, not a kid, plus the drama of having another guy involved in your life, plus knowing that he screwed the heck out of you many occasions, or if the father died, now the guy has to deal with the emotional trauma stuff.
most guys will just pass on all of that unless they are looking just for sex.
Reply:Hi hun. I too am a single mom and I could write a book on the subject of single parents and dating.
Please do not let a man tell you that your children are BAGGAGE, children are precious gifts. A lot of men are bitter towards single moms because a lot of these women could not let go of what happened to them in their past relationships, so they do not know how to handle themselves when a normal guy comes into their lives.
Remember to never put a man before your children it is not worth it!
It is important that you do not introduce any man you are dating to you children until you are completely committed to one another. Children do not understand what dating means and it saves you a lot of heart aches.
You are going to find more men out there that are only looking for a free ride because they think we are in desperate need of a man, and that we want nothing more than sex. A lot of these men are liars, already married, and are ONLY looking for sex.
I do want to say that there are a lot of sincere men out there that know a loving, strong, sincere single mom is the way to go because we have a head on our shoulders, and we are NOT into the dating games, and we know what we want in our lives.
Stay strong mom and things will work out to your advantage. You will meet that wonderful, sincere man that loves you and your children.
Reply:I've date a single mom before. Got along great with the child, we were just too different. I think there are tons of guys out there that would date a single mom. Just be careful, because like any other women, there are guys that are attracted just because they think they are easy. But don't give up yet, I am sure you will find the right guy. :)
Reply:dont be silly , if the guy likes u he ll take on the child
Reply:Lots of dads don't want to be around their own child either! I'd date a single mum. I'd expect that she'd have fewer spare hours than a childless lady and more often exhausted, but needn't impact on us.
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