First he says he can't believe he going on 30 years old and still single.
Then another time he says he a single guy in his 20's.
Then three weeks ago,he passed around a picture of,what people say is his girlfriend,and ask him how come he never talks about her,is he single or taken?
Is he single or taken?
Seems your best guess is as good as mine (if not better). Maybe he has multiple personalities. Try asking him if you REALLY want to know.
My best guess is he is 29 years old and has an ex-girlfriend.
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Reply:ask him yourself cuz idk
dentist
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
4yr relationship-single a yr and a half?
I was in a 4yr relationship-I had a baby-we were engaged-I am 23 yrs old-I am wondering is it ok I have been single for a yr and a half-I mean im not feeling anyone and ppl always tell me I am attractive-Why do ppl do that too-Why do they act like only ugly ppl are suppose to be single???thats weird as hell,but should I be looking or what b.c I am satisfied.I ama single mother, I work and I am planning on going back to finish getting my associates degree...
4yr relationship-single a yr and a half?
You said you're satisfied - so who cares what anyone else thinks? Get your degree and have a life - and good for you!
You dont' have to want someone in your life, geez! There is nothing wrong with you. People just don't understand someone with goals, who is ok with being single. Let it roll off - it's your life, not theirs.
Reply:Cut up then, I knw plenty of dudes marring ugly females and end up having a good *** relationship. Which have me thinking why i cant be blessed like that.
4yr relationship-single a yr and a half?
You said you're satisfied - so who cares what anyone else thinks? Get your degree and have a life - and good for you!
You dont' have to want someone in your life, geez! There is nothing wrong with you. People just don't understand someone with goals, who is ok with being single. Let it roll off - it's your life, not theirs.
Reply:Cut up then, I knw plenty of dudes marring ugly females and end up having a good *** relationship. Which have me thinking why i cant be blessed like that.
Whats the real definition of a "single mother?
I have been taking care of my one year old son by myself with no help at all from the father. He has never held his son, played with him, fed him a bottle, and so on. Basically I get no type of assistance at all. In my opinion that makes you a single mother.
Why do females that either get child support or some type of help from the father meaning diapers, toys, or as much as a day out with the child consider themselves to being single mothers when technically theyre not doing it ALL by themselves. Is it because they are not with the father and are single or what?
This may sound weird but it pisses me off when a female with ANY type of assistance from the father always runs around complaining about being a single mother when in reality single means one, as in one parent doing EVERYTHING by themselves.
When will they realize that they get it sooo much better than us true single mothers and shut up complaining when they at least got one pack of diapers when we never got any?
Whats the real definition of a "single mother?
a single mother- is a hero, an angel, the hardest worker in the world, the most important people in the world too, because without them we would have more dysfuntional children out there.
Reply:ooooh weeeeeeeeeee gurl i am with you on that note. a single mother is someone who is doin it on their own. but it is nothin wrong with gettin some help. like from a friend or a loved one to watch them.......so you can have a break. every single mother needs a break...well even the ones who are not. it's just funny when you know someone who claims they are a single mother...and they are not. i know quite a few. they like to brag about all what they are doing...and what little their babbys daddys are doing. they are still considered as single parents...because they are the person responsible for that child...there is shelter..there is food...there is clothes...there is wipes...there is teething rings...there is baby finger nail clippers...hell you know what i'm talkin about. that stuff add up...and someone has to pay for it. it is nothing wrong with gettin help for your child...and help for you. it's hard being a single mother...but the rewards will come in the end. keep your head up. to all the single mothers out there...its gonna be aite. and to all the dead beat fathers...........grow the hell up!
Reply:Golf clap.
"We never got any"
Golf clap
You made a choice to create a baby without being married to a man. You have to live with that choice and whatever labels come with it. You sound bitter. Don't pass that along to your child. Stop the cycle now. The world will be a better place if more people would do the right thing and stop crying about what they are "entitled" to based on their lifestyle choices.
Reply:Oh you poor thing! I think a single mother is somone (a mother) who doesn't have a husband, and has to take care of the child for the majority of the time. I think that it is really unfair to the single mothers who's exes don't take care of the kid at all. Good luck
Reply:A single mother is a woman who has never been married and has a child or children. Someone who has been married before and has children is a divorced mother.
I wish you would not be so bitter - you are bound to transmit this to your child. Hope you have support from family and friends, at least, and that you have realized the mistake you made is affecting both of you profoundly.
Reply:I am a single mother of three, I get child support only when the court system drags my ex into court on a warrant, threatens to put him in jail if he doesnt make a payment right then and there, usually around $100 give or take a 20. I have no free time, no alone time, I am with my kids 24/7 365 for the most part. So you would be pissed off that i call myself a SINGLE mother because I recieve some type of support? The army should change their slogan, beause being a single mother IS the toughest job you will ever do. There are millions of us out there, and each situation is a little different. I am sorry that you have no help at all, but you have options as far as support if you choose to exercise them. Sounds like you are more mad at your son's father than anyhing, and are misdirecting that resentment at people who are struggling just as much as you are. You chose that man to lay down with, just like I chose mine. We all live with our decisions, whether they be stupid or not. I would not trade my children for all the money on earth, they are my joy. Quit fighting a phantom battle, ANY single mother goes thru struggles, and hard times, and we all hate to see our kids miss out on things they should have (fathers that give a damn) but we sure shouldn't be bashing one another on top of it. I wish you and your son the best wishes possible, and many blessings. Enjoy him, and know we might not all have it as rough as you, but we all have it rough.
Reply:Well, I suppose you are right about that one. But you are further muddying up the water. See, "single mother" is a term originally snapped up by "unwed" mothers who could disguise their pre-marital uncommitted sex with those others who maybe were divorced or widowed. So the term single mother was exploited to disguise the unwed mothers.
The use of the term has never been tied to support, but it seems to me by so doing, you will pull away the veil and open yourself up to the question of "where's the daddy".
Reply:Sorry. The definition of a single mother in an unmarried woman who is not living with a man. You just have it worse than most. Be proud of what you have accomplished. The bitterness will only eat at your heart and soul.
Reply:You are correct in your feelings. The word single however is applied only because the woman or the man is not married(as in my case).
Reply:I define a single mother a women who takes care of there child alone with the father not being apart of there life... But i also say women who has children and the fathers are not with the mother a single mother.. I get what your saying and i would be one pissed off person too luckly my babies daddy is in our llifes... but yes a single women with a child is considered a single mother because she is single wether the father is apart of there life or not... In actual reality....
Reply:im a single mother,i have a son and i think a single mother is a women who takes care of her kids either all by herself or mostly by herself,because even though the dad might be helping a little the majority of the responsibility is on the mother,some of us have it worser like you,my babyfather comes by once every few months or sometimes never for about 10 minutes for nothing,my son dont even know him foreal, i never get anything from him.no money or nothing,i dont want chiild support because thats forced money i feel if he chooses to be worthless and dont help he can be gone,this dude comes to visit with new clothes and things on and aint never got my son a thing,so im with you girl but dont let it get to you, but i dont care because i can do it on my own.basically we have to care for them, most fathers just visit and be on there way so i say we all are strong for this whether some get a little help or some like me and you dont its still are responsibilty because when the men are gone its up to us to still raise our kids.imma tell you something when some ask why dont i care if i get help----because my son is making me stronger and in the long run they are the ones missing out not our babys.so girl dont let single mothers that get help piss you off because there struggling too, maybe not as much but remember that man can run out and shes stuck with it on her own.none of us should be complaining at all because whether were struggling alittle or alot we decided to make these babies and we knew that it could be a chance that the dude woudnt be there.so be happy.be strong. to all singlemothers be proud of yourselves we can do this on our own!
Reply:dont know, but ill try it to know what's the feeling and definition of it.
Why do females that either get child support or some type of help from the father meaning diapers, toys, or as much as a day out with the child consider themselves to being single mothers when technically theyre not doing it ALL by themselves. Is it because they are not with the father and are single or what?
This may sound weird but it pisses me off when a female with ANY type of assistance from the father always runs around complaining about being a single mother when in reality single means one, as in one parent doing EVERYTHING by themselves.
When will they realize that they get it sooo much better than us true single mothers and shut up complaining when they at least got one pack of diapers when we never got any?
Whats the real definition of a "single mother?
a single mother- is a hero, an angel, the hardest worker in the world, the most important people in the world too, because without them we would have more dysfuntional children out there.
Reply:ooooh weeeeeeeeeee gurl i am with you on that note. a single mother is someone who is doin it on their own. but it is nothin wrong with gettin some help. like from a friend or a loved one to watch them.......so you can have a break. every single mother needs a break...well even the ones who are not. it's just funny when you know someone who claims they are a single mother...and they are not. i know quite a few. they like to brag about all what they are doing...and what little their babbys daddys are doing. they are still considered as single parents...because they are the person responsible for that child...there is shelter..there is food...there is clothes...there is wipes...there is teething rings...there is baby finger nail clippers...hell you know what i'm talkin about. that stuff add up...and someone has to pay for it. it is nothing wrong with gettin help for your child...and help for you. it's hard being a single mother...but the rewards will come in the end. keep your head up. to all the single mothers out there...its gonna be aite. and to all the dead beat fathers...........grow the hell up!
Reply:Golf clap.
"We never got any"
Golf clap
You made a choice to create a baby without being married to a man. You have to live with that choice and whatever labels come with it. You sound bitter. Don't pass that along to your child. Stop the cycle now. The world will be a better place if more people would do the right thing and stop crying about what they are "entitled" to based on their lifestyle choices.
Reply:Oh you poor thing! I think a single mother is somone (a mother) who doesn't have a husband, and has to take care of the child for the majority of the time. I think that it is really unfair to the single mothers who's exes don't take care of the kid at all. Good luck
Reply:A single mother is a woman who has never been married and has a child or children. Someone who has been married before and has children is a divorced mother.
I wish you would not be so bitter - you are bound to transmit this to your child. Hope you have support from family and friends, at least, and that you have realized the mistake you made is affecting both of you profoundly.
Reply:I am a single mother of three, I get child support only when the court system drags my ex into court on a warrant, threatens to put him in jail if he doesnt make a payment right then and there, usually around $100 give or take a 20. I have no free time, no alone time, I am with my kids 24/7 365 for the most part. So you would be pissed off that i call myself a SINGLE mother because I recieve some type of support? The army should change their slogan, beause being a single mother IS the toughest job you will ever do. There are millions of us out there, and each situation is a little different. I am sorry that you have no help at all, but you have options as far as support if you choose to exercise them. Sounds like you are more mad at your son's father than anyhing, and are misdirecting that resentment at people who are struggling just as much as you are. You chose that man to lay down with, just like I chose mine. We all live with our decisions, whether they be stupid or not. I would not trade my children for all the money on earth, they are my joy. Quit fighting a phantom battle, ANY single mother goes thru struggles, and hard times, and we all hate to see our kids miss out on things they should have (fathers that give a damn) but we sure shouldn't be bashing one another on top of it. I wish you and your son the best wishes possible, and many blessings. Enjoy him, and know we might not all have it as rough as you, but we all have it rough.
Reply:Well, I suppose you are right about that one. But you are further muddying up the water. See, "single mother" is a term originally snapped up by "unwed" mothers who could disguise their pre-marital uncommitted sex with those others who maybe were divorced or widowed. So the term single mother was exploited to disguise the unwed mothers.
The use of the term has never been tied to support, but it seems to me by so doing, you will pull away the veil and open yourself up to the question of "where's the daddy".
Reply:Sorry. The definition of a single mother in an unmarried woman who is not living with a man. You just have it worse than most. Be proud of what you have accomplished. The bitterness will only eat at your heart and soul.
Reply:You are correct in your feelings. The word single however is applied only because the woman or the man is not married(as in my case).
Reply:I define a single mother a women who takes care of there child alone with the father not being apart of there life... But i also say women who has children and the fathers are not with the mother a single mother.. I get what your saying and i would be one pissed off person too luckly my babies daddy is in our llifes... but yes a single women with a child is considered a single mother because she is single wether the father is apart of there life or not... In actual reality....
Reply:im a single mother,i have a son and i think a single mother is a women who takes care of her kids either all by herself or mostly by herself,because even though the dad might be helping a little the majority of the responsibility is on the mother,some of us have it worser like you,my babyfather comes by once every few months or sometimes never for about 10 minutes for nothing,my son dont even know him foreal, i never get anything from him.no money or nothing,i dont want chiild support because thats forced money i feel if he chooses to be worthless and dont help he can be gone,this dude comes to visit with new clothes and things on and aint never got my son a thing,so im with you girl but dont let it get to you, but i dont care because i can do it on my own.basically we have to care for them, most fathers just visit and be on there way so i say we all are strong for this whether some get a little help or some like me and you dont its still are responsibilty because when the men are gone its up to us to still raise our kids.imma tell you something when some ask why dont i care if i get help----because my son is making me stronger and in the long run they are the ones missing out not our babys.so girl dont let single mothers that get help piss you off because there struggling too, maybe not as much but remember that man can run out and shes stuck with it on her own.none of us should be complaining at all because whether were struggling alittle or alot we decided to make these babies and we knew that it could be a chance that the dude woudnt be there.so be happy.be strong. to all singlemothers be proud of yourselves we can do this on our own!
Reply:dont know, but ill try it to know what's the feeling and definition of it.
Why do single women like married men ?
I been married over a year now, I have found that more and more single women of all lifestyle are more attracted to me then ever. Not that I have low self-esteem but I'm not Denzel or Russell Crowe, but everytime I meet a woman that tend to want to be my "friend" now, I turn them down ofcourse, but I feel gay sometimes and my boys who are single call me gay too. But overall why is it that single women want married men, would that make me a "dog" if just one time I acted on lust? Can I blame it on the women who dont care anyway?
Why do single women like married men ?
They're attracted to married men because they see that you're someone who can and wants to settle down. [Something a lot of women want.] And no, you wouldn't be a "dog" if you acted on lust just one time; you'd be a ******** asshole!!
Reply:they like married men because they can have sex but no commitment.... an no u shouldnt act on it.. how would u feel if ur wife acted on something like that???
Why do single women like married men ?
They're attracted to married men because they see that you're someone who can and wants to settle down. [Something a lot of women want.] And no, you wouldn't be a "dog" if you acted on lust just one time; you'd be a ******** asshole!!
Reply:they like married men because they can have sex but no commitment.... an no u shouldnt act on it.. how would u feel if ur wife acted on something like that???
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Is it hard to be single when your middle aged?
Hi, I´m 28 and love being single and would like to live my life as just a gigolo. But i find that the group of single women my age is already thinning out there among the single and i am more and more just increasing the age gap between me and the women i date every year. I usually meet women in the typical places that include alcohol. But what do you do when you get a bit old for a lot of the typical places? internet dating? Can you actually meet normal wonderful women at any age that are also just happy being single and just enjoy dating and being single. Are there any older gigolo´s out there who can tell me if there loving it or if it just gets harder and lonelier?
Is it hard to be single when your middle aged?
Well, there is nothing wrong with your life choice, but I would like to say I really hope that you have been, and always will be honest about what you are really after when you are dating these women.
Reply:28 is not middle aged.
Reply:It will get harder and lonlier because you are reaching an age where most couples are happily married. Yes the net has all kinds of single dating. You just have the right one for you. You can fill out a profile for the internet on a singles website and there are categories you can put yourslef in, for example, Just interested in s@x and casual dating. You would be surprised how you can meet people that way. Try lavalife. Take care
Reply:I am 26, and I love being single, woulnd't have it any other way. But, I am not easy. So, I guess it just depends on what your looking for. Easy girls usually aren't hard to find.
Reply:It is easy to be single when you are middle aged,What is more difficult is getting and staying hard
Reply:Firstly a Gigolo is usually a young man who is paid to have sex with an older woman - basically the Gigolo is prostituting himself and personally younger women are not usually interested in Gigolo's, they often don't need to pay any one for sex.
I guess as you get older so will the women who are prepared to pay you for sex - Happy Geriatric Dating.
teeth problems
Is it hard to be single when your middle aged?
Well, there is nothing wrong with your life choice, but I would like to say I really hope that you have been, and always will be honest about what you are really after when you are dating these women.
Reply:28 is not middle aged.
Reply:It will get harder and lonlier because you are reaching an age where most couples are happily married. Yes the net has all kinds of single dating. You just have the right one for you. You can fill out a profile for the internet on a singles website and there are categories you can put yourslef in, for example, Just interested in s@x and casual dating. You would be surprised how you can meet people that way. Try lavalife. Take care
Reply:I am 26, and I love being single, woulnd't have it any other way. But, I am not easy. So, I guess it just depends on what your looking for. Easy girls usually aren't hard to find.
Reply:It is easy to be single when you are middle aged,What is more difficult is getting and staying hard
Reply:Firstly a Gigolo is usually a young man who is paid to have sex with an older woman - basically the Gigolo is prostituting himself and personally younger women are not usually interested in Gigolo's, they often don't need to pay any one for sex.
I guess as you get older so will the women who are prepared to pay you for sex - Happy Geriatric Dating.
teeth problems
What's so great about being single ?
If you're single, and you don't like alcohol, bars, casual sex, or drugs, what else is left ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . A single person has to like living without women, and I HATE not having a girlfriend ! I don't have what it takes to be single . Being single is a curse .
What's so great about being single ?
When you're single, at least you're not surprised when you find out you have an std.
Reply:You're miserable because you choose to be. There's no reason for single life to be horrid, but all you are doing is focusing on what you don't have, instead of what you do.
Your life is what you make it, single or not...you can choose to be happy and enjoy life, have friends, do fun things, or you can choose to boo-hoo because you don't have a significant other to entertain you and give your life 'meaning'.
I'd rather be happy no matter what my relationship status is...a happy single person sure makes a LOT better gf or bf than a miserable, lonely one does.
Reply:being single rules, that is, if you have any actual hobbies
Reply:I know it sucks. I hate it too but being single gives u time to get some thinking done and get to know yourself better. What sucks for me though is everybody around me seems to be in a relationship and want to tell me about their love life sometimes I feel like they're doing it to remind me that I'm single and are trying to rub it in.
Reply:I love being single!
No one to argue with. No one to compromise with. I have options when it comes to dating. My money is mine to spend. No one complains if I don't take the trash out or if I wear my shoes in the house. No nagging. I can eat a meat sandwich or order pizza 15 nights in a row if I want to. No chick flicks.
Lots of people love me, I have family and a lot of friends. I'm not missing out.
Reply:I agree dude.
Reply:What else is left? looking for that other girlfriend of course. Best of luck mate!
Reply:Personally, I agree. I hate being single! It's no fun!
Although, I do have friends who are very career oriented and keep busy with other responsibilities... so, they don't really focus on having a b/f or g/f.
I also have friends who like to party and have casual flings...They are afraid of commitment and don't want to be tied down.
I guess it just depends on the person and how they live there life.
Afterall, it is what you make of it!
Reply:Sorry to hear! Before you can be a good partner in a relationship, you need to learn to be ok with yourself. Learn to love yourself. Without knowing yourself and be ok with yourself, you'd just spin your life around your significant other... which you will likely regret later on in life and probably have a horrific mid-life crisis.
Bottom line - be ok with yourself. Learn to live by yourself first.
What's so great about being single ?
When you're single, at least you're not surprised when you find out you have an std.
Reply:You're miserable because you choose to be. There's no reason for single life to be horrid, but all you are doing is focusing on what you don't have, instead of what you do.
Your life is what you make it, single or not...you can choose to be happy and enjoy life, have friends, do fun things, or you can choose to boo-hoo because you don't have a significant other to entertain you and give your life 'meaning'.
I'd rather be happy no matter what my relationship status is...a happy single person sure makes a LOT better gf or bf than a miserable, lonely one does.
Reply:being single rules, that is, if you have any actual hobbies
Reply:I know it sucks. I hate it too but being single gives u time to get some thinking done and get to know yourself better. What sucks for me though is everybody around me seems to be in a relationship and want to tell me about their love life sometimes I feel like they're doing it to remind me that I'm single and are trying to rub it in.
Reply:I love being single!
No one to argue with. No one to compromise with. I have options when it comes to dating. My money is mine to spend. No one complains if I don't take the trash out or if I wear my shoes in the house. No nagging. I can eat a meat sandwich or order pizza 15 nights in a row if I want to. No chick flicks.
Lots of people love me, I have family and a lot of friends. I'm not missing out.
Reply:I agree dude.
Reply:What else is left? looking for that other girlfriend of course. Best of luck mate!
Reply:Personally, I agree. I hate being single! It's no fun!
Although, I do have friends who are very career oriented and keep busy with other responsibilities... so, they don't really focus on having a b/f or g/f.
I also have friends who like to party and have casual flings...They are afraid of commitment and don't want to be tied down.
I guess it just depends on the person and how they live there life.
Afterall, it is what you make of it!
Reply:Sorry to hear! Before you can be a good partner in a relationship, you need to learn to be ok with yourself. Learn to love yourself. Without knowing yourself and be ok with yourself, you'd just spin your life around your significant other... which you will likely regret later on in life and probably have a horrific mid-life crisis.
Bottom line - be ok with yourself. Learn to live by yourself first.
Is he single or taken?
First he says he can't believe he going on 30 years old and still single.
Then another time he says he a single guy in his 20's.
Then three weeks ago,he passed around a picture of,what people say is his girlfriend,and ask him how come he never talks about her,is he single or taken?
Is he single or taken?
He shouldn't be playing that kind of bull....sounds like a immature guy... not even worth a single thought
Reply:It could be he feels sorry for himself and whats other people to feel sorry for him. Or he could be living in denile about living single. And this is where the picture of the girl comes into play.
Reply:I wouldn't even waste time trying to figure it out. He isn't worth it.
Reply:Obviosuly he has a girlfriend...and obviously you have poor judgment if you have to ask this question.
Reply:Just move on. He is a player. I wouldn't even waste my time
Reply:He has to many issues and whatever he is don't get involved.He may have a girl and just tried to lie to you or he may not have one and was just trying to make you jealous. Who really knows. Just ask him though. Its the easiest way honestly. If he lies he is not worth it and if he says he has one he clearly isn't worth it. Watch his actions.
Then another time he says he a single guy in his 20's.
Then three weeks ago,he passed around a picture of,what people say is his girlfriend,and ask him how come he never talks about her,is he single or taken?
Is he single or taken?
He shouldn't be playing that kind of bull....sounds like a immature guy... not even worth a single thought
Reply:It could be he feels sorry for himself and whats other people to feel sorry for him. Or he could be living in denile about living single. And this is where the picture of the girl comes into play.
Reply:I wouldn't even waste time trying to figure it out. He isn't worth it.
Reply:Obviosuly he has a girlfriend...and obviously you have poor judgment if you have to ask this question.
Reply:Just move on. He is a player. I wouldn't even waste my time
Reply:He has to many issues and whatever he is don't get involved.He may have a girl and just tried to lie to you or he may not have one and was just trying to make you jealous. Who really knows. Just ask him though. Its the easiest way honestly. If he lies he is not worth it and if he says he has one he clearly isn't worth it. Watch his actions.
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