I have one double and one single eyelid. This make my eyes look weird, having big and small eyes. I am currently 15 years old and wondering if there is any product in Singapore for me to make my single to become double.
Single eyelids problems?
Go to Sinma, and ask for a double eye lid sticker. It's not painful to apply. and last quite long and gives you natural double eyelid after a few months
Hope that helps
Reply:There is a double eyelid product that I thought you might be interested in.
For more information, do check out
www.doubleeyelid.blogspot.co...
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Reply:use an eye pencil on the single one to give an impression of a double eyelid.
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Single people over 30?
Do you tend to look at the married and divorce questions just in the hopes that a older single will ask something...
Woulsn't it be nice if yahoo had and older singles Q and A.
I'm not talking full blown adult ..Although that would be nice lol..
Don't get me wrong, I think it's great that teens have a place to ask questions..But it's very annoying when and adult question is asked and you have to try and decide if the person is a minor
Single people over 30?
Advice is advice no matter age, race, sex etc. Everyone had thier own experiences and views and to share them is interesting for the most part. Having others understand and relate is also kinda cool.
Reply:I agree with you. I am 46 and I wish they had an adult site but there is no way to regulate it.
Reply:I agree
Reply:I can usually tell if the person is very young just by the answer they give or the question they ask. Sometimes its just an idoit adult but most of the time its young people. But that is kinda cool just think maybe you can give some of that wisdom you have learned from experience to those who need it and hopefully use it. And yes I am over 30, 32 to be exact.
Reply:come on most of them start with well i was at school.but i think your right it would be nice to have something that's was for older people,i think if i read another 100 word question about my best friend want talk to me any more all scream
Reply:I'm married
Reply:Good idea. I am 48 and find this site very juvenile.
Reply:If it's good advice then who cares how old they are! I'm 35 and OLDDDDD!!!!!!
Reply:Just give proper advice to those who needs help.
Woulsn't it be nice if yahoo had and older singles Q and A.
I'm not talking full blown adult ..Although that would be nice lol..
Don't get me wrong, I think it's great that teens have a place to ask questions..But it's very annoying when and adult question is asked and you have to try and decide if the person is a minor
Single people over 30?
Advice is advice no matter age, race, sex etc. Everyone had thier own experiences and views and to share them is interesting for the most part. Having others understand and relate is also kinda cool.
Reply:I agree with you. I am 46 and I wish they had an adult site but there is no way to regulate it.
Reply:I agree
Reply:I can usually tell if the person is very young just by the answer they give or the question they ask. Sometimes its just an idoit adult but most of the time its young people. But that is kinda cool just think maybe you can give some of that wisdom you have learned from experience to those who need it and hopefully use it. And yes I am over 30, 32 to be exact.
Reply:come on most of them start with well i was at school.but i think your right it would be nice to have something that's was for older people,i think if i read another 100 word question about my best friend want talk to me any more all scream
Reply:I'm married
Reply:Good idea. I am 48 and find this site very juvenile.
Reply:If it's good advice then who cares how old they are! I'm 35 and OLDDDDD!!!!!!
Reply:Just give proper advice to those who needs help.
Single for too long?
I'm 26 and I've been single for nearly 6 1/2 years. I'm a single mom of one and I work full time. I'm almost always broke. All the advice I get is for online (which I've tried and NOT had good results with), gym (I go and the guys keep to themselves), work (I'm in a small office and the two times I've gotten involved with anyone at work it's turned out badly), church (not really much of a church-goer anymore and never met anyone when I was) and pursuing hobbies (hard to do with a baby in tow and most of the hobbies I like are a little pricey). Any practical ideas on meeting someone? Someone for a relationship, not just a hook up because that's the last thing I want. Or advice on how to get better results from the places I've tried and failed before? I'm pretty and fun and a really good person. Just seem to be invisible to men.
Single for too long?
the reason you seem invisable is that you are too quiet with your body use it to talk and try as many new things as possable like clubs and traveling this will introduce you to new people.
Single for too long?
the reason you seem invisable is that you are too quiet with your body use it to talk and try as many new things as possable like clubs and traveling this will introduce you to new people.
Single core better than dual core in gaming?
I heard a single core CPu is better than a dual core in gaming because most of the games out there only support single core.
is that true? So i should get a pentium 4 instead of a core 2 duo =.=?
Single core better than dual core in gaming?
Don't invest in old technology.
There are already games available that can take full advantage of dual core technology ... %26amp; more are surely on the way.
Your older games will run just as well on a mid to high end dual core PC.
regards,
Philip T
Reply:Core 2 Duo is the best CPU to get right now. There are some artificial cpu tests that will show better performance from an Pentium D than a Core 2--but those are only testing cpu speed, not actual performance. The only reason to get a Pentium would be for a bottom dollar budget. Check out the link for some comparisons.
is that true? So i should get a pentium 4 instead of a core 2 duo =.=?
Single core better than dual core in gaming?
Don't invest in old technology.
There are already games available that can take full advantage of dual core technology ... %26amp; more are surely on the way.
Your older games will run just as well on a mid to high end dual core PC.
regards,
Philip T
Reply:Core 2 Duo is the best CPU to get right now. There are some artificial cpu tests that will show better performance from an Pentium D than a Core 2--but those are only testing cpu speed, not actual performance. The only reason to get a Pentium would be for a bottom dollar budget. Check out the link for some comparisons.
Single mother confused?
I'm a single mom with 2 kids, I'm finding it very hard to met a guy who just doesn't want a one night stand or who isn't a player, is there any good guys out there who isn't afraid of a single mom. If you a man %26amp; going to reply back to this stop %26amp; really think before answer this we are no different than those women out who hasn't been married or those ones who don't have kids, why do you men freak out when you hear their's kids involved, %26amp; I hate it when a man tells a friend he's just not ready for a ready made family, that family when their before he was.
Single mother confused?
There are good guys out there if you keep looking, it's just that too often you find the bad ones. Don't give up though!
Reply:One of my friends had 4 children from 2 previous marriages. She finally found Mr. Right for her. Now she has 5 Kids! Still with him too. Been 10 years. So do not settle for less. Report It
Reply:you get a bad rap, I would have no problems with a single mom but I'm an old married guy, many of the 30/40 something guys I work with will not go out with a single mom.
Reply:keep looking and youll find one like my mom did
Reply:I pray that you understand that true love is not found in a man. True love is only found in Jesus Christ. Please trust him and I'm telling you the man he has for you is just waiting for you, and I know he is all hat you desire. So seek Jesus and I PROMISE you , you will not be disappointed.
A mans love waivers like the wind
But our Lord Jesus is forgiving towards any sin
God Bless.
Reply:sounds like your looking at boys not men.
Reply:im a single mom of 3 kids it took me a long time to find mr right keep searching around go ahead and just be friends at first if u mention about your children dont ask if he wants to be involved its his decision just take everything real slow if he likes you that much he'll ask you out and go on the next step... just keep searching for the right one and make sure hes right for your children! make sure you find out what he wants in a relationship too does he have children does he want to date someone else with children etc hope everything works out and something comes near!
Reply:Guys that do that think there still in grade school, and do not want someone else responsiblities, I have 3 children and 31, and I finally found someone who loves me and my children, I would not date anyone who did not respect me or my children I am a package and I do not care, but we all deserve to be loved and cared for, but just be carefull when you do find someone who does not care if you have kids and will enjoy time with you and the children, sometimes there looking for that mother figure as well, but this one is easy the guys or should I say boys refuse to grow up, and do not want some other guys/mans kids in there life, this is an ongoing issue before I was born even my mother was born, sometimes I think why couldn't it be like in the old days guy gets girl pregnant marries her and supports the family, but it is now the 2000 yr and guys no longer want responsiblity they want to be that little boy for life, mind u not all guys are like that, just keep looking and remember do not settle for a guy that wants another mother in his life, but one that loves you and your family there are still a few guys out there like that, not many. Good Luck!
Reply:Relax and lower your guard a bit, you are like any other person who need a date not just for the sake of sex but due to the need for good company, for someone to share your feelings with, and to generally feel good being cared about. And just stop being aggressive. You might be scaring away many by doing that. Let things happen on their own.
Reply:brutal honesty.
1. If someone isnt ready to "settle down" then forget it. being with someone who has kids is like being married in a way. Many men dont want to just BAM be in a relatioship that resembles marriage.
2. Men dont want to get all close to children knowing that because you arent married there is a chance they could hurt the children by breaking up with you.
3. They are single and dont have kids. Being with someone with kids makes a man feel suddenly tied down and obligated to provide love and care for all of you even though the kids arent his, which can be awkward.
4. and for the last main reason. They dont want kids getting in the way of the relationship and they know that they no doubt will, which is an instant problem before you even get started.
Reply:Yes, they are out there. I began dating my husband when my daughter was three months old, and from the beginning, she came on all of our dates, she was included in everything. Anything less I wouldn't have tolerated. Trust me, they are there. :)
Reply:Well, You hit home. I am a single mother also. I only have one child though. Its hard to find a good guy without kids even harder with kids. All the guys I end up meeting say they want to meet my child and be a family. That all ends up being bull****...
Reply:I am sorry baby..thier are some good men out there...but it takes a very good man to accept another man's children in his life..some men see a single mom as a easy piece..just take it slow baby..dont rush into sex right away ..and make sure its seriuos before you bring hime around the kids..because they a need a mans love also..they get attached ..then you break up...and it hurts them also baby
Reply:They are out there, they are just harder to find. When I was single I met several single moms that I saw the potential for a long term relationship with. The fact they had kids did not scare me away. In fact to some degree I had more respect for them and the fact that they managed so well to have such great lives and were able to provide for their kids. I think you just have to continue looking and be picky till you find the right guy who will respect the fact you have kids and your only interested in a very real relationship.
Reply:It took me about 6 months to finally introduce my child to my current husband. Until I didn't know that the relationship was going to be serious I didn't expose my child to him.
My advice to you is: Be prepared to be independent financially and emotionally. Make that person aware that your children come first and that they are your priority in life. If a man can't accept, then he is not good for you and you are better off without him. You don't want to expose your children to someone that can change and become a nightmare for you and and them.
Reply:what i see going on here is that you are looking at boy's... take a long look at what you realy want a man to be, then look at the guy's that you've been looking at... they arn't the same...
now, go back to what you want from a man, and find him...
on a side note, many men (that i know) don't want to be with a woman that has a(any) kids because they don't feel that their ready to be a father to kids that age... they want to start from a baby... so they learn as they go...
personaly, i'd rather skip the baby part... no dipers, less being woken up in the middle of the night...
but in that case, you also skip the part where there is no kids at all... taking each other in all area's of the house:)
it's all a give and take...
one piece of advice, keep the kids seperate to begin with, don't expect, or even ask him to do something for the kids in the begining... that'll help keep em longer i think...
Reply:Please don't say that women without kids and women with kids aren't different. We are. We expect more.
Reply:ok
Reply:Sassy,
There are plenty of men who do not freak out when they hear that the lady they wish to date have children. I think it comes with the level of maturity and self confidance the particular man has. Just know that men who are not scared by the so called "Ready made family" do exist.
Reply:You're a young woman and they are young men. The majority have only sex on their minds. It's the way of the world, honey. So go about your business and enjoy your life. Before you know it you'll meet someone who respects you and loves your kids. You're just looking too hard right now and that makes you seem desperate. Godloveya.
Reply:I'm in the same boat - single mom with one child. Between school activities and long work hours, I don't get a lot of time to go out and meet guys in the first place. I always wonder when the best time is to tell the guy about my daughter. I usually wait until I feel like the relationship looks like it might be heading in a serious direction.
If he knows about your kids and then uses them as an excuse to end the relationship, I doubt he's telling the truth. He probably just doesn't want to be in the relationship. Or maybe he didn't realize how much work it would be to date a single mom, in which case you've made him think twice about doing that to someone else.
Hang in there - there's good ones out there...at least that's what they tell me.
Reply:i had a similar experience with a single mom(one night stand), but i knew the baby dady, he used to be my friend, and the mom didn't understand my need for a one night stand... she hates me now, but he only reason i didn't go back, was for one i felt weird doing that, and he found out and wants to kill me, so whatever, but if you got a mean baby daddy that might be one reason, and another guys dont wanna settle down, they have kids and settle down or leave, i wish u well
Reply:Most Men are immature and are not ready to take on the responsibility and some men just don't want to deal with the baby daddy drama. But, yes there are men out there who are not afraid of an already made family i found one and so will you. Try going to some type of singles club or meetings their are also single fathers out there with kids.
Reply:Some men are opposed to "ready made families" because the father of these kids is usually an ****** who makes their lives a living hell OR the kids misbehave because they haven't been made to act right. Then there are some guys who just want a woman who can take off at a moment's notice without having to worry about who'll watch the kids. Then... there are decent guys who'll love you no matter what.
Reply:They are out there, don't give up.
Reply:I am a single mom and I can tell you there ARE guys out there that will accept your children. If they don't want to accept your kids, they aren't for you anyway. I don't know how old you are but most of the time a guy a bit older than you will be more willing to accept your ready made family. My boyfriend is nine years older than me and it is great. Guys my own age aren't ready for the life I have to live.
Reply:RESPONSIBILITY is hard to accept for some men.
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Single mother confused?
There are good guys out there if you keep looking, it's just that too often you find the bad ones. Don't give up though!
Reply:One of my friends had 4 children from 2 previous marriages. She finally found Mr. Right for her. Now she has 5 Kids! Still with him too. Been 10 years. So do not settle for less. Report It
Reply:you get a bad rap, I would have no problems with a single mom but I'm an old married guy, many of the 30/40 something guys I work with will not go out with a single mom.
Reply:keep looking and youll find one like my mom did
Reply:I pray that you understand that true love is not found in a man. True love is only found in Jesus Christ. Please trust him and I'm telling you the man he has for you is just waiting for you, and I know he is all hat you desire. So seek Jesus and I PROMISE you , you will not be disappointed.
A mans love waivers like the wind
But our Lord Jesus is forgiving towards any sin
God Bless.
Reply:sounds like your looking at boys not men.
Reply:im a single mom of 3 kids it took me a long time to find mr right keep searching around go ahead and just be friends at first if u mention about your children dont ask if he wants to be involved its his decision just take everything real slow if he likes you that much he'll ask you out and go on the next step... just keep searching for the right one and make sure hes right for your children! make sure you find out what he wants in a relationship too does he have children does he want to date someone else with children etc hope everything works out and something comes near!
Reply:Guys that do that think there still in grade school, and do not want someone else responsiblities, I have 3 children and 31, and I finally found someone who loves me and my children, I would not date anyone who did not respect me or my children I am a package and I do not care, but we all deserve to be loved and cared for, but just be carefull when you do find someone who does not care if you have kids and will enjoy time with you and the children, sometimes there looking for that mother figure as well, but this one is easy the guys or should I say boys refuse to grow up, and do not want some other guys/mans kids in there life, this is an ongoing issue before I was born even my mother was born, sometimes I think why couldn't it be like in the old days guy gets girl pregnant marries her and supports the family, but it is now the 2000 yr and guys no longer want responsiblity they want to be that little boy for life, mind u not all guys are like that, just keep looking and remember do not settle for a guy that wants another mother in his life, but one that loves you and your family there are still a few guys out there like that, not many. Good Luck!
Reply:Relax and lower your guard a bit, you are like any other person who need a date not just for the sake of sex but due to the need for good company, for someone to share your feelings with, and to generally feel good being cared about. And just stop being aggressive. You might be scaring away many by doing that. Let things happen on their own.
Reply:brutal honesty.
1. If someone isnt ready to "settle down" then forget it. being with someone who has kids is like being married in a way. Many men dont want to just BAM be in a relatioship that resembles marriage.
2. Men dont want to get all close to children knowing that because you arent married there is a chance they could hurt the children by breaking up with you.
3. They are single and dont have kids. Being with someone with kids makes a man feel suddenly tied down and obligated to provide love and care for all of you even though the kids arent his, which can be awkward.
4. and for the last main reason. They dont want kids getting in the way of the relationship and they know that they no doubt will, which is an instant problem before you even get started.
Reply:Yes, they are out there. I began dating my husband when my daughter was three months old, and from the beginning, she came on all of our dates, she was included in everything. Anything less I wouldn't have tolerated. Trust me, they are there. :)
Reply:Well, You hit home. I am a single mother also. I only have one child though. Its hard to find a good guy without kids even harder with kids. All the guys I end up meeting say they want to meet my child and be a family. That all ends up being bull****...
Reply:I am sorry baby..thier are some good men out there...but it takes a very good man to accept another man's children in his life..some men see a single mom as a easy piece..just take it slow baby..dont rush into sex right away ..and make sure its seriuos before you bring hime around the kids..because they a need a mans love also..they get attached ..then you break up...and it hurts them also baby
Reply:They are out there, they are just harder to find. When I was single I met several single moms that I saw the potential for a long term relationship with. The fact they had kids did not scare me away. In fact to some degree I had more respect for them and the fact that they managed so well to have such great lives and were able to provide for their kids. I think you just have to continue looking and be picky till you find the right guy who will respect the fact you have kids and your only interested in a very real relationship.
Reply:It took me about 6 months to finally introduce my child to my current husband. Until I didn't know that the relationship was going to be serious I didn't expose my child to him.
My advice to you is: Be prepared to be independent financially and emotionally. Make that person aware that your children come first and that they are your priority in life. If a man can't accept, then he is not good for you and you are better off without him. You don't want to expose your children to someone that can change and become a nightmare for you and and them.
Reply:what i see going on here is that you are looking at boy's... take a long look at what you realy want a man to be, then look at the guy's that you've been looking at... they arn't the same...
now, go back to what you want from a man, and find him...
on a side note, many men (that i know) don't want to be with a woman that has a(any) kids because they don't feel that their ready to be a father to kids that age... they want to start from a baby... so they learn as they go...
personaly, i'd rather skip the baby part... no dipers, less being woken up in the middle of the night...
but in that case, you also skip the part where there is no kids at all... taking each other in all area's of the house:)
it's all a give and take...
one piece of advice, keep the kids seperate to begin with, don't expect, or even ask him to do something for the kids in the begining... that'll help keep em longer i think...
Reply:Please don't say that women without kids and women with kids aren't different. We are. We expect more.
Reply:ok
Reply:Sassy,
There are plenty of men who do not freak out when they hear that the lady they wish to date have children. I think it comes with the level of maturity and self confidance the particular man has. Just know that men who are not scared by the so called "Ready made family" do exist.
Reply:You're a young woman and they are young men. The majority have only sex on their minds. It's the way of the world, honey. So go about your business and enjoy your life. Before you know it you'll meet someone who respects you and loves your kids. You're just looking too hard right now and that makes you seem desperate. Godloveya.
Reply:I'm in the same boat - single mom with one child. Between school activities and long work hours, I don't get a lot of time to go out and meet guys in the first place. I always wonder when the best time is to tell the guy about my daughter. I usually wait until I feel like the relationship looks like it might be heading in a serious direction.
If he knows about your kids and then uses them as an excuse to end the relationship, I doubt he's telling the truth. He probably just doesn't want to be in the relationship. Or maybe he didn't realize how much work it would be to date a single mom, in which case you've made him think twice about doing that to someone else.
Hang in there - there's good ones out there...at least that's what they tell me.
Reply:i had a similar experience with a single mom(one night stand), but i knew the baby dady, he used to be my friend, and the mom didn't understand my need for a one night stand... she hates me now, but he only reason i didn't go back, was for one i felt weird doing that, and he found out and wants to kill me, so whatever, but if you got a mean baby daddy that might be one reason, and another guys dont wanna settle down, they have kids and settle down or leave, i wish u well
Reply:Most Men are immature and are not ready to take on the responsibility and some men just don't want to deal with the baby daddy drama. But, yes there are men out there who are not afraid of an already made family i found one and so will you. Try going to some type of singles club or meetings their are also single fathers out there with kids.
Reply:Some men are opposed to "ready made families" because the father of these kids is usually an ****** who makes their lives a living hell OR the kids misbehave because they haven't been made to act right. Then there are some guys who just want a woman who can take off at a moment's notice without having to worry about who'll watch the kids. Then... there are decent guys who'll love you no matter what.
Reply:They are out there, don't give up.
Reply:I am a single mom and I can tell you there ARE guys out there that will accept your children. If they don't want to accept your kids, they aren't for you anyway. I don't know how old you are but most of the time a guy a bit older than you will be more willing to accept your ready made family. My boyfriend is nine years older than me and it is great. Guys my own age aren't ready for the life I have to live.
Reply:RESPONSIBILITY is hard to accept for some men.
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Single, like forever?
I have been single for AGES and it doesn't look like that's gonna change anytime soon. I believe in taking it as it comes, and when you're least looking, that's when someone will turn up, however, I always go out for a good time with the girls, and that's what I get.
Whenever I moan about being single, my friends say, "well you aren't really looking, are you?"
I don't want to go out with the intention of looking for a man, in case I am truly disappointed, and referring back to what I said earlier, it always comes round when you are least looking.
Anyone else find themselves in a similar situation?
Single, like forever?
me, too. I am a model, have long, endless legs and look neat. I got constantly hit on my man who want a one night stand. I started doubting I ever got a decent man at all. Ah, and if you start "looking", these men interpret "looking for a man" as "looking for some no strings attached sex". I have been there, done that. First they hit on you and wonder "how come someone like you can't get a man", then when they get that it's not just a put in-take out you are looking for (plenty of those around), they disappear. If you find out how to avoid that, let us all know.
Reply:oh yeah me too
Reply:Well for one thing do you smile? coz depressed looking girls are a no-go for a nice chat.
besides that your looks might be abit intimidating or vice versa.
Just act friendly( thats if your not) and guys will find it easier to approach you.
theres a saying "girls with a frown, leave her down. girls with a smile, will bare your child"
Reply:of course you don't have to chase love but a bit of an effort is needed here. One needs to show men that she's available for them, if you act like you don't care, no man will ever approach you. Plus if you like someone maybe you should do the first move in a feminine way of course. good luck. Mind you, being single for a long time gives habits and reduces the probability of finding someone. Be vailable . GOOD LUCK !
Reply:It's true that you are more likely to find someone if you are not specifically looking for someone unless you meet a man who is also looking for someone, the problem there is that you go out with each other for the wrong reasons.
However, while still not looking you need to expand your circle of friends, if all you ever do to socialise is to go out with the girls then when do you give a chance for the tall, dark, handsoem man to meet you.
Try branching out to try some new hobbies, you go there for something to do and make some new friends, if you're lucky you'll meet someone with a similar passion in amongst them all.
It worked for me and i found the perfect person; having been single for an extremely long time and believeing i wouldn't find anyone unless i "looked".
Reply:I have been into your situation for so long until i found myself looking for one. And because i rushed in finding someone, that put me into a bad situation. To cut the long story short, i met the wrong man and until now i am still suffering with my actions. So, may i suggest that just be patient and don't rush. For sure God created someone who is meant for you alone. You just have to wait for the right time you'll gonna meet him. Pray for God's guidance to help you find The One.
Reply:Yes, I've given up looking, not that I ever went out to look either. So much so I'm rubbish at it now, every now and then I do try, and it does work, but the men bore me with their standard chat up lines. Its like a game to them, and I'm bored playing.
So where does that leave me or you? Its frustrating, I feel like a fool waiting for 'thunderbolts' that I'm beginning to think don't exist (is that what I get from reading too much fiction?) I'm sure men feel the same way, maybe there are thousands of single people who are bored playing games with each other? You never know.
Reply:i was single for a very long time, and i thought the same as you then when i was least expecting it i started talking to someone and there was just a sudden spark like nothing ive ever had before and now me and my spouse have been happy for a long time and will be for a long time to come im sure, just stick it out and trust your instincts that something will come it will be alot better than if you go looking for guys numbers on nights out
Reply:Actually, for me I enjoy sharing a warm relationship with my partner. However, if he was not in my life, it would be less interesting, but I have never actively sought a partner. It just began as sharing a lunch table in a crowded deli, we began a conversation, and agreed to try to share lunch together again. I was 3 pr 4 days before we connected again, and I enjoyed his openness, his self appreciation, his sophisticated humor, and his good grooming. We exchanged phone numbers, and it was I who phoned him and asked him if would be interested in seeing a particular movie I had been wanting to see. He was interested in that movie as well, and we just became more comfortable with each other with each social participation. We both knew we liked each other, but I wanted to truthfully aware of his past picadillos, I was not embarassed to expose mine. Before I decided I thought I'd like to have a sexual relationship with him, I explained that we would go together to the Public health clinic and be tested for std's We were both clean, but I still insisted that we use condoms. At first he was reluctant, but I was adamant about that. I did not, and still not want to reproduce a life, nor get genital herpes, HIV, or Hep.C. Now our use of condoms is routine, and when the time is right, I roll one over his penis. Sometimes I get "stimu ribs" and turn them inside out so he can experience the benefits of the rubber ridges. Sometimes I buy colored condoms, or flavored condoms, and we both enjoy the prelude to sexual activity. Just understand that one day, you will make a connection with a guy, but please, don't patronize him. Most secure males I know appreciate intellect, spontaniety, romantic weekend in some nice affordable hotel or motel, sometimes I wear pasties on my nipples under a sheer chamise. He really likes that, but I make him wait for those occasions. Sometimes we find a dark deep doorway in some building, and have a quickie in the doorway. Use your immaginaton. We are monogmous with each other, but it' s choice not an expectation. So, hang in there kiddo. Today may be the day.
actua
Reply:Everyone has their off season.Just be yourself and think positively.Act as if you have a bf.Guys will start to pay attention.
Reply:No because I don't go out with the girls, but seriously you will find it in the most unlikely of places..
Reply:i really had no intention of getting hooked onto someone (personal feeling), trying to get my studies and my sport into stablization
yea, but you're right, whats meant to b will in the end be just like what they always tell me, 'things happen when you least expect it)
gd luck!
Whenever I moan about being single, my friends say, "well you aren't really looking, are you?"
I don't want to go out with the intention of looking for a man, in case I am truly disappointed, and referring back to what I said earlier, it always comes round when you are least looking.
Anyone else find themselves in a similar situation?
Single, like forever?
me, too. I am a model, have long, endless legs and look neat. I got constantly hit on my man who want a one night stand. I started doubting I ever got a decent man at all. Ah, and if you start "looking", these men interpret "looking for a man" as "looking for some no strings attached sex". I have been there, done that. First they hit on you and wonder "how come someone like you can't get a man", then when they get that it's not just a put in-take out you are looking for (plenty of those around), they disappear. If you find out how to avoid that, let us all know.
Reply:oh yeah me too
Reply:Well for one thing do you smile? coz depressed looking girls are a no-go for a nice chat.
besides that your looks might be abit intimidating or vice versa.
Just act friendly( thats if your not) and guys will find it easier to approach you.
theres a saying "girls with a frown, leave her down. girls with a smile, will bare your child"
Reply:of course you don't have to chase love but a bit of an effort is needed here. One needs to show men that she's available for them, if you act like you don't care, no man will ever approach you. Plus if you like someone maybe you should do the first move in a feminine way of course. good luck. Mind you, being single for a long time gives habits and reduces the probability of finding someone. Be vailable . GOOD LUCK !
Reply:It's true that you are more likely to find someone if you are not specifically looking for someone unless you meet a man who is also looking for someone, the problem there is that you go out with each other for the wrong reasons.
However, while still not looking you need to expand your circle of friends, if all you ever do to socialise is to go out with the girls then when do you give a chance for the tall, dark, handsoem man to meet you.
Try branching out to try some new hobbies, you go there for something to do and make some new friends, if you're lucky you'll meet someone with a similar passion in amongst them all.
It worked for me and i found the perfect person; having been single for an extremely long time and believeing i wouldn't find anyone unless i "looked".
Reply:I have been into your situation for so long until i found myself looking for one. And because i rushed in finding someone, that put me into a bad situation. To cut the long story short, i met the wrong man and until now i am still suffering with my actions. So, may i suggest that just be patient and don't rush. For sure God created someone who is meant for you alone. You just have to wait for the right time you'll gonna meet him. Pray for God's guidance to help you find The One.
Reply:Yes, I've given up looking, not that I ever went out to look either. So much so I'm rubbish at it now, every now and then I do try, and it does work, but the men bore me with their standard chat up lines. Its like a game to them, and I'm bored playing.
So where does that leave me or you? Its frustrating, I feel like a fool waiting for 'thunderbolts' that I'm beginning to think don't exist (is that what I get from reading too much fiction?) I'm sure men feel the same way, maybe there are thousands of single people who are bored playing games with each other? You never know.
Reply:i was single for a very long time, and i thought the same as you then when i was least expecting it i started talking to someone and there was just a sudden spark like nothing ive ever had before and now me and my spouse have been happy for a long time and will be for a long time to come im sure, just stick it out and trust your instincts that something will come it will be alot better than if you go looking for guys numbers on nights out
Reply:Actually, for me I enjoy sharing a warm relationship with my partner. However, if he was not in my life, it would be less interesting, but I have never actively sought a partner. It just began as sharing a lunch table in a crowded deli, we began a conversation, and agreed to try to share lunch together again. I was 3 pr 4 days before we connected again, and I enjoyed his openness, his self appreciation, his sophisticated humor, and his good grooming. We exchanged phone numbers, and it was I who phoned him and asked him if would be interested in seeing a particular movie I had been wanting to see. He was interested in that movie as well, and we just became more comfortable with each other with each social participation. We both knew we liked each other, but I wanted to truthfully aware of his past picadillos, I was not embarassed to expose mine. Before I decided I thought I'd like to have a sexual relationship with him, I explained that we would go together to the Public health clinic and be tested for std's We were both clean, but I still insisted that we use condoms. At first he was reluctant, but I was adamant about that. I did not, and still not want to reproduce a life, nor get genital herpes, HIV, or Hep.C. Now our use of condoms is routine, and when the time is right, I roll one over his penis. Sometimes I get "stimu ribs" and turn them inside out so he can experience the benefits of the rubber ridges. Sometimes I buy colored condoms, or flavored condoms, and we both enjoy the prelude to sexual activity. Just understand that one day, you will make a connection with a guy, but please, don't patronize him. Most secure males I know appreciate intellect, spontaniety, romantic weekend in some nice affordable hotel or motel, sometimes I wear pasties on my nipples under a sheer chamise. He really likes that, but I make him wait for those occasions. Sometimes we find a dark deep doorway in some building, and have a quickie in the doorway. Use your immaginaton. We are monogmous with each other, but it' s choice not an expectation. So, hang in there kiddo. Today may be the day.
actua
Reply:Everyone has their off season.Just be yourself and think positively.Act as if you have a bf.Guys will start to pay attention.
Reply:No because I don't go out with the girls, but seriously you will find it in the most unlikely of places..
Reply:i really had no intention of getting hooked onto someone (personal feeling), trying to get my studies and my sport into stablization
yea, but you're right, whats meant to b will in the end be just like what they always tell me, 'things happen when you least expect it)
gd luck!
Single statues... he's in the game -should i strike out on purpose??
this guy just broke up with his girlfriend b/c she cheated on him with some guy from another school in a tent. this guy found out by her two best friends came up to him and told him. this girl is my friend- i casualy talk to her everyday and we sit together in one of my classes she told me she didn't and i believe her but i heard from another friend her b/f said this guy was going to break up with her anyways b/f they broke up.
ANYWAYS
- this guy is real cut and funny, sweet, not a player, and lives out where i do.
should i go for this guy do you think? i think i have a 60% chance but idk.
i'm not shy. i'm open and funny, and i am attractive, athletic,not shy and like an ideal catch what ppl've said-not to be cocky. i'm a lot like his g/f too but different you know.
what would you do? your thoughts?
i think i'm gonna go for it [start flirting]
he's single i'm single. or do i not go for it.
** OH he plays football. this friday should i ask to wear his jersey?
Single statues... he's in the game -should i strike out on purpose??
so you want to hook up with your friends ex? She doesnt seem too interested in this guy at all so go for it.
Reply:Yeah, go for it!!
ANYWAYS
- this guy is real cut and funny, sweet, not a player, and lives out where i do.
should i go for this guy do you think? i think i have a 60% chance but idk.
i'm not shy. i'm open and funny, and i am attractive, athletic,not shy and like an ideal catch what ppl've said-not to be cocky. i'm a lot like his g/f too but different you know.
what would you do? your thoughts?
i think i'm gonna go for it [start flirting]
he's single i'm single. or do i not go for it.
** OH he plays football. this friday should i ask to wear his jersey?
Single statues... he's in the game -should i strike out on purpose??
so you want to hook up with your friends ex? She doesnt seem too interested in this guy at all so go for it.
Reply:Yeah, go for it!!
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