Are you a single divorcee ?

Life, and the matters of the heart. Hello world.


Z man here.... So, first comes love, then comes


marriage. There goes that word again. I cannot help


but think, that people these days, see marriage as


a luxury, rather than for the concept of true love. Doing


it for all the wrong reasons. Now I have a hard time


understanding, why some people get married, and still


act like they are single ! Why is that, can anybody, tell


me why ? And when they go back to being single,


they act as if, they never have been before.... Wow.


Did it really matter, in the 1st place. :) The question is,


are you a single divorcee ? Or in other words, are you


living the single lifestyle after marriage, and what is it


like this time around. Best answer wins. *

Are you a single divorcee ?
been divorced 17 yr now and still single, problem being all the woman I fancy and like are all happily married which makes it harder to get into a steady relationship ,but being single is ok by me
Reply:Best time of my life


lm my own person, lf l don't want to do anything in house l don't. Accountable only to me. Got my life back after 20 odd years no fear of violence in home by my ex
Reply:i am a man OK. Married men feel secure in there


marriage,so they can look for strange eye candy


and chicks.they slip the ring off.but can't hide the


white strip where the ring was.I am divorced and


have been for years.I DATE when i want to.I get


tired of women asking me about my divorce in detail.THEN SAY,You men are all alike..I have met some nice LADIES,BUT when they find out


I'm staying single.that's the end.
Reply:Harley, Digital TV, Lager, occasional Doris - wot more a man want?
Reply:I can smile about it now, but at the time it was terrible, oh mama let me go.
Reply:Be single divorced for 6yrs. The difference now is I have kids to worry about. Plus, I have learned from the mistakes I have made and now I'm more picky now. Now, being single has it's ups and downs too.
Reply:Ugh I am SO in this boat right now. I guess I agree with the other poster as I know what I DON'T want, which is why I worry I will be an eternal single-divorcee. But yes I am "dating" more than I did before, as I married a bit young (well in retrospect 25 WAS too young for me LOL!)
Reply:I'm separated right now and have been for a month. my friends are constantly wanting me to go out with them and stop crying all the time. i do not like being single. it's horrible. i did cherish my marriage but often took my husband for granted. i had a horrible temper that eventually drove him away. he is fed up with me. i want nothing more than to be with him and to come back home. i am one who cannot go back to the single life. i do believe in the sanctity of marriage. my life is no longer whole. to those who can divorce and move on so quickly....i find it to be a character flaw. i find it sad.
Reply:Its quite different this time - I know more what I want. Or maybe its what I don't want. I am able to enjoy dates without wondering all the goofy stuff, you know, does he like me or not? Am I laughing too loud? Is he going to kiss me goodnight? I am more able to be myself and if I want to be kissed good night I will make the move.
Reply:no i was never married and im only14 but i want ot get to the third level