Friday, July 16, 2010

What's so great about being single ?

If you're single, and you don't like alcohol, bars, casual sex, or drugs, what else is left ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . I'm being wasted on the single life . I don't have what it takes to be single . Being single is a curse .

What's so great about being single ?
Life / being single : is what you make it.





If you wallow in self pity, it's not going to be much fun.


If you get off your @$$ and challenge yourself to meet new people, your odds of meeting someone really great increase.





Don't have to go to bars, or use drugs. Step outside of your comfort zone a bit. Walk a friend's dog in a park. Take up tennis/golf/tango/cooking classes/language class. Join a fitness center or recreation center and take advantage of the co-ed sports and activities where other single people can see your fun, active side.





I'm guessing if you have this attitude it shows. People might not be as likely to approach you if you are giving off this "life really sucks" vibe.





just an opinion.
Reply:Ok. You're mad at it. Sometimes I am too. But you know, there are plenty of other things to enjoy and that are not alcohol, casual sex, bars or drugs. I've been single for a long time now. Sometimes it's just unbearable, but other times it's okay. Do you like music, sports, the movies, reading, or just hanging out wiht friends? You see there are a lot of fun things to do out there.
Reply:LOL. I know how u feel. I guess you get freedom, and have no one to answer to.





I don't like being single. I need to have someone there for me who wants me and needs me too. I guess I have issues with being alone.
Reply:Yup totally agree, then trying to be decent person, the feminist remind you that your evil anyway, gotta love this place called home
Reply:So find someone. You don't have to drink to go to a bar. Go to the mall or something.
Reply:if your tired of being single then dont be! being single does suck... I was single for the longest time and i hated it...
Reply:It's not the worst! You need get some hobbies and interests, my friend!
Reply:Whoa!!!! Slow down, if you come off so desperate of being single what makes you think you will attract somebody?





You'll scare off any suitor with that attitude. You can use this time for personal growth and trust me you can still enjoy yourself when your single without compromising your likes and dislikes.





Go out with your friends or your family! Go to dinner, the movies, bowling, go dancing, do something!!!!





You can have dates with your friends or family! The only difference between a best friend and a boyfriend/girlfriend is sex! Nuff said!
Reply:no it really isn't all u have to do is take control of your life and do things that u like to do..


its the best opportunity to hang out with ur parents/brothers/sisters enjoy ur family... one day u will not have the time to do so and u will regret not spending time with them


go to the movies


out to dinner


play games at home with them


enjoy them trust me


I know what I am talking about them


being in a relationship takes so much time from thoose that love you





Good Luck ull c its not all that bad
Reply:Nothing is lonlier than being with the wrong person... so be happy you are single. There are thousands of unhappy people who are out there and in a miserable relationship because they can't be comfortable being alone. Alone time is important. It's time to be you and find what you like to do and learn about yourself. If you aren't taking this time to do that - then you aren't living... and that's on you. Making the best of this time makes you a more interesting person for the person you will meet one day.
Reply:Then go out and find someone!! Alcohol, bars, casual sex, and drugs are not always involved in finding someone to have a relationship with. You just have to go out and find someone who has the same opinions as yourself.
Reply:What? I'm enjoying it...actually now I'm afriad how will it be if I find someone to be with....


I do enjoy my time.....I can read, watch movies, sleep, go wherever I like, I don't have to adjust my time based on someone's program....my god......this is so sweet.
Reply:Ur scareing me


I just became single a month ago


Please dont say its a curse
Reply:DIDO!


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