Why is it that supposed single Christian men...?

think that when a single woman walks into church that she wants and needs him, and if the woman happens to be a single mom, then she should be happy just to have him notice her? Single Christian women have standards, and we know what we want, and being a single parent only makes us that much more cautious about what we want.


So why do single Christian guys behave in such a way?

Why is it that supposed single Christian men...?
single Christian men believe that they are the cream of the crop just because they are still single-which they assume defines their independence-and because they actually attend church, because they are so self righteous and see them selves as good they believe that they can have any woman they want and that when they so choose to recognize a woman she should be happy because such a good guy like himself actually did they are insensitive self righteous jerks, but stay strong good christian women are hard to find and a real man does not need a woman to make him feel good about himself and he does not need to look down on others, a real man will appreciate a woman for who she is be strong and dont let those men get you down. being a single parent is enough to show how far you have come but these christian men believe that once you have children that your value has decreased but having a child is a blessing for god, not because you made a mistake that does not mean you are less than anyone else the bible speaks of forgiveness just a jesus forgave mary madgaline do you to deserve forgiveness when some one is in chirst they are made new and all their old mistakes are no more these christian men are hypocrites they should read their bible more
Reply:They're Christians. Enough said.
Reply:the reason mayb the upbringing of the community u live in..
Reply:maybe those single christian men are jerks? god, this really happens? i'm a single parent myself and i don't even want another man in my life-ever. i know what i want, yes. i think these single christian guys were so insecure that they thought every women likes them -to bolster their non existent ego.pathetic.
Reply:that's a bullshit stereotype


not all Christian men are like that
Reply:we single men don,t look for women in churches we go to places like the rec center and find girls in sports or there is dances at the rec center on friday nights.
Reply:I think if they behave that way its because their heart isnt in the right place, and they are not at church for the right reasons.
Reply:I don't think it's so much that they are christan men. I think they are men who happen to be christian and also happen to be using the church for a singles bar without the skimpy outfits.
Reply:I wouldn't know. I'm atheist. But I'm assuming that not all of these guys behave in the exact same fashion. And being Christian prob has nothing to do with it.
Reply:Because they live by standards that should have been done away with 500 years ago.





If you are a single mom and you walk into church, the first thing that probably goes through their heads is not "wow, that's an attractive woman" or "she must be a pretty strong person to raise a child on their own". It's probably like "wow, I wonder how many commandments she has broken and how do I save her"





Puke.


Get your self a nice atheist boy that doesn't live by 16th century rules and can do more than pray
Reply:Well, Kimmy, I see we have some issues don't we? How many churches have you been in? Because it sounds to me like yours is an isolated case and not the norm. It really isn't fair of you to broadbrush all single christian men the way you have. Would you want God to pick one fault of yours and decide that all single christian women have your problem? Let's be fair next time, okay? Your question doesn't sound very mature.
Reply:I am one and I don't act that way, so I really don't know what you are talking about.
Reply:that was that guy..not all in general..tht sucks!..we got morals...
Reply:I'm still confused by your question.
Reply:If he doesn't treat you the way you want to be treated, he's not the guy for you. If there's no future, don't waste your time. Love has to be a two-way street.