To single guys who wish they were married: why still single?

Single guys: If you are between 35 and 40 why is it that you are still single? Did you make mistakes or was it just bad luck?





What lessons can you teach me so that I avoid the same fate?

To single guys who wish they were married: why still single?
I'm 36. Some of both I'd say. Make that a lot of both, plus some youthful stupidity. If you want advice you should probably be asking guys who wished they were married and ARE, but yeah here's some mistakes to avoid:





I spent a lot of time chasing girls that weren't as into me as I was into them. They eventually married somebody else.





I spent a fair amount of time with girls that were totally into me but who I wasn't that into. In addition to being a waste of time (if you're looking to get hitched), that is a recipe for pain because if a woman's not happy she'll make SURE that you're not happy too. Not worth it for the poon, but easy to make that mistake if you've had a dry spell.





About luck: "luck" is percentages. If you roll dice and you want to get a twelve and you get a twelve the first time, that's luck. If you roll enough times, then you'll get a twelve eventually no matter what. The only question is can you wait that long? So conserve your efforts by moving on if it's not working out.





Give yourself a lot of opportunities. I stayed home a lot and I work in computers. One does not meet a lot of potential spouses like that. When I was working in real estate I met girls all the time, because you're dealing w/ a lot of people in that kind of job. Some of them are bound to be eligible women. If I had it to do again I'd get out a hell of a lot more, although that can be hard because usually girls at bars are looking to hook up, not get hitched.





One last thing; don't be so picky that you cut yourself out off the game. Once you've got something good stick with it, and work for it. The chances of finding a 100% match are pretty slim. If you don't love her that's one thing; just don't expect the perfect woman, because she doesn't exist.





Hope that helps.
Reply:well, im not 35 yet, but in a few years i will be, and at this old age, i blame it on my looks. im so ugly i couldnt pay for sex, much less get it for free in a relationship. it's kinda sad. but that's my life u know. i so hate myself right now.
Reply:Start early ie 15... creates a chain reaction for success rater then you are always the unexperienced 'trainee'





more nookie more confidence more girls.





get fit and muscelly from a young age and dont be squeeky clean





Girls like cocky guys.








being a fireman or a rock star helps as does having money
Reply:Bad luck. I think if I had joined dance class 10 years ago I might have met someone.
Reply:Naw bro! I'm just big, fat, and ugly! Got the money, but no honey.
Reply:OK I just hit 35 so here are some reasons in a rough order.





1: She didn't drive carefully enough, can't marry dead girls (OK that wasn't my fault).


2: House wasn't big enough


3: No car (lifelong biker)


4: I didn't ask her to marry me within 3 months


5: I'm not circumcised (why is it always us who has to give stuff up?)


6: I didn't want genetic children.


7: IF we got married, she might still have to work


8: I don't do package holidays





These are from women who get me, who would: make their meals, wash up, bring them coffee and breakfast in bed, do about 75% of the shopping, and not even make her clean (my) house or do laundry, take them on real holidays (not airports and hotels).





So yes, i made mistakes in the eyes of girls, but then I'd rather be single than in an unhappy relationship. Don't do something you're not comfortable with just to keep them. Some one will love you for who you already are.
Reply:you just haven't met the right women for you yet that's all yor still young enough my ex hubby married me when he was 43

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