How can a single person have a fabulous life ?

What's so great about being single ? People keep telling me "You can go whereever you want without having to have permission ." . Do married people really have to have permission to do what they want ? Can't married people work things out to where they can do what they want without permission ? I figured the reason people really enjoy being single, is because they like going to bars, and I hate bars . Everybody says "You don't need a woman to be happy" and "You don't need a woman to complete you", but EVERYBODY refuses to be without a romantic partner, so that means men need women to be happy ! If everybody else refuses to be without a romantic partner, why should I be different ? One person told me "If you think the single life is crummy, it's going to be crummy ." . Being without a girlfriend HAS to be a disaster ! If you're single and you don't like bars, what else is left ?

How can a single person have a fabulous life ?
Explore new things, find your passion in life and of course try to date girls you think you have fun with.
Reply:OK. Relax, take a deep breath and realize that bars are not the right way to meet good women. 9-10 women in bars want free drinks, and that is it. If you DO find a woman in a bar, chances are that she is a raging alcholic and you don't want that in your life. Do you work out? If not, why? Where do you work out? Women go to gyms. Women shop in the grocery store. Stop one. Talk to them. They don't bite. If they don't want to talk, them go find another one. The store is full of them. Now don't stalk them and walk up and say "Hey, you want some candy..." Don't be a creep. Women don't like creepy guys. There are women at church, and if they are all old and married, change churches. Find a social club in your area, we have CHOA.com here. Very cool group.


All in all, if you will look at the dating thing with no expectations, you will always get more than you expect. I will not lie and say that there is someone for everyone, cause I have dated some freaky chics!!! I mean FREAK! FREAKY FREAK FREAK!!!!


When it comes right down to it you have to be happy with yourself. Take your clothes off, look in the mirror and say Damn I am a sexy beast. If you don't believe it, fake it until you make it. Self degridation and pitty partys sux and make others not want to be around you. So, chin up, get moving.


Anyhow I hope I helped.
Reply:You've got a very narrow view of life, and that's rather sad.





Nobody NEEDS anyone else. That whole idea is totally distasteful. PLENTY of single people are quite happy with their lives...and why not be? It's foolish to settle with a partner simply because someone has convinced themselves that being single is hell on earth. *rolls eyes*





Your life will be as great or as crummy as you make it...single or attached. I know plenty of people in relationships who are not happy...I know plenty of single people who are...and vice versa. Being single or attached doesn't guarantee you a great life or a crappy one. THAT is up to you.





No one can complete you, but you. You are a 100% complete (unless some part of your body is missing) individual. People who feel they aren't whole unless they have a partner are doing themselves and their potential partner a great disservice...they are expecting someone else to "fix" their life because they chose not to do it themselves. Needy isn't appealing...it's much better to be wanted by someone, than to be needed.





I love being in a relationship when all is going well...it's great to have a partner to share things with, for sex, for intimate moments, etc. But it's not necessary...one's life can be very happy and fulfilling as a single. I'd much rather be single for the rest of my life, than be with a partner and unhappy.





Make your life what you want it to be. If you aren't happy with your social status or position as a single or attached person, then that's your issue change and improve.
Reply:Life whether single or married is what you make it.
Reply:Love is a great feeling, but when the rainclouds come everything turns to chaos. There are times in a relationship where you might feel like the happiness man in the world, then one mistake might ruin your whole sunflower field of happiness.





I`m guessing you haven`t experience having a girlfriend much. In a relationship you have to take chances and sacrifice, if your not willing to take those chances, your girlfriend will instantly think you are the worst boyfriend in the world.





when you are single, you don`t have to buy a girl gifts and you don`t have to ditch your friends just to hang with your girl.
Reply:Well! When you get married, you get a responsibility, right now you don't have any, you are free to do as you please, no restriction nothing, after you get married, then she might sometimes agree with you and sometimes she will disagree with you, now you have no one to dictate you, but after marriage, she will ask you to do things, right now you don't have to worry about pleasing anyone, but after marriage you are constantly trying to please her and make peace.


Yes! Its quiete an effort, mind you its for both the parites, vice versa and then they both find themselves burnt out, its sad but true.
Reply:I am in a very committed serious relationship and we don't need to ask permission from one another. Out of courtesy we will tell the other person where we are going and the details but never once have I had to ask my boyfriend's permission. That's absurd for whoever says that.