I'm a single guy in my early 40's and still single?

I'm a nice guy, attractive, employed, nice, funny, etc,m but never met a woman to marry. I came close twice (one dumped me before I could ask her, the other I decided I couldn't live with), but never made the plunge. I've tried singles sites (eHarmony, Match.com, etc), but never met the right woman. I'm okay with kids, but I don't care for babies (just being honest). My female friends don't have single friends they can hook me up with, and I'm at a loss for what to do. I've been asked how I've managed to remain single for so long. the truth is, I've never learned how to talk to women.





Any suggestions?

I'm a single guy in my early 40's and still single?
Nothing is wrong with being single. In fact, it is better to be single than to be in a bad relationship.





My suggestion is keep busy so you won't be so concerned with finding a partner. If it happens, it happens. If not, don't worry too much about it.
Reply:Just relax hun. Great things happen when you least expect them to. Be yourself when you talk to women. There is no trick to it. If you have a sense of humor, use it. We love a man that has a good sense of humor and someone that doesn't take himself too seriously. Good luck hun!
Reply:you never know who is around the corner or who you are going to meet.


Good luck xx
Reply:Are you sure you're not Scott Baio????
Reply:Face it sweetie, you're a loser!


What a shame.
Reply:Communication skills are extremely important. If you have never a class in how to communicate then you should go and take one.


As far as the "Right" woman. If the shoe doesn't fit then do not force it. It would only end in a disappointment, and could cost you a lot of money, and emotional heart break.


Enjoy your freedom, if you want a part-time lady they should be easy to find. Just tell them what you want. There are a lot of ladies who do not want a full time husband, but would like a man to visit, go out with, and entertain!


Later, and good luck