What's so great about being single ?

If you're single, and you don't like alcohol, bars, casual sex, or drugs, what else is left ? Being single is the WORST ! The single life is cruel . A single person has to like living without women, and I HATE not having a girlfriend ! I don't have what it takes to be single . Being single is a curse .

What's so great about being single ?
When you're single, at least you're not surprised when you find out you have an std.
Reply:You're miserable because you choose to be. There's no reason for single life to be horrid, but all you are doing is focusing on what you don't have, instead of what you do.





Your life is what you make it, single or not...you can choose to be happy and enjoy life, have friends, do fun things, or you can choose to boo-hoo because you don't have a significant other to entertain you and give your life 'meaning'.





I'd rather be happy no matter what my relationship status is...a happy single person sure makes a LOT better gf or bf than a miserable, lonely one does.
Reply:being single rules, that is, if you have any actual hobbies
Reply:I know it sucks. I hate it too but being single gives u time to get some thinking done and get to know yourself better. What sucks for me though is everybody around me seems to be in a relationship and want to tell me about their love life sometimes I feel like they're doing it to remind me that I'm single and are trying to rub it in.
Reply:I love being single!


No one to argue with. No one to compromise with. I have options when it comes to dating. My money is mine to spend. No one complains if I don't take the trash out or if I wear my shoes in the house. No nagging. I can eat a meat sandwich or order pizza 15 nights in a row if I want to. No chick flicks.





Lots of people love me, I have family and a lot of friends. I'm not missing out.
Reply:I agree dude.
Reply:What else is left? looking for that other girlfriend of course. Best of luck mate!
Reply:Personally, I agree. I hate being single! It's no fun!





Although, I do have friends who are very career oriented and keep busy with other responsibilities... so, they don't really focus on having a b/f or g/f.





I also have friends who like to party and have casual flings...They are afraid of commitment and don't want to be tied down.





I guess it just depends on the person and how they live there life.





Afterall, it is what you make of it!
Reply:Sorry to hear! Before you can be a good partner in a relationship, you need to learn to be ok with yourself. Learn to love yourself. Without knowing yourself and be ok with yourself, you'd just spin your life around your significant other... which you will likely regret later on in life and probably have a horrific mid-life crisis.





Bottom line - be ok with yourself. Learn to live by yourself first.