Dating "single moms" & MONEY???

Now single myself, but with mine being "newly grown," I am pretty much on my own. Simply curious here....





I continue to see all these women posting questions about how men feel about dating single moms. I see all the usual responses. The one I don't understand is this;





"I don't want to spend my money raising anybody elses kid?"





Hello, guys? That is why the father pays child support. BUT


MORE IMPORTANTLY..I always made more than enough money to pay for every single thing my own kid ever had! His step-father never, ever, paid one dime towards my kid. Even way back when we dated, if we went out for dinner, I paid for my own kids meal. Nothing changed when we married.





My point? Women make money too. Hello? Sometimes, even a lot! We don't need yours. If you would all just stop thinking that is what we "need" or want from you. Or worse..that we are "plotting" to get yours.


Settle down a bit guys!

Dating "single moms" %26amp; MONEY???
I think if you date/marry a single mom you're taking on the responsibility of the child too. If a guy doesn't want to then get rid of him because it doesn't sound like he'll be the father figure your child needs.
Reply:Very good points !!





The problem is we live in USA -- ( Which is a woman's country)





There are even more serious problems with this Man - Woman "Equality" ...recently a woman killed her husband ( minister) and served only 60 days in prison ....





I hope all men get united and bring about REAL EQUALITY and not this bs !





( I date foreign women because of all this bs here ---even then I try to stay away from "americanized" --ones . I should simply go overseas to bring my girl )
Reply:I'm sorry to say this but many hassles come with dating single moms, aside from the fact that if the relationship does continue you are putting your effort into raising another mans progeny.





Guys will have the "your not my real father treatment".


I had a mate who's girlfriends ex was telling his kids to say that he was abusing them because he was jealous.


The way the law is written the man will become financially liable for co-habitation.





Its not out of the question, but honestly I generally avoid single-mums and she would really need to be extra-special for me to consider.





Whats wrong with single-dads? Plenty of them have the same problem and they need love too.
Reply:You are sooo right. Most of us single moms work good jobs. Who can afford to live on welfare.


Guys wake up and smell the coffee. This is a new century. We don't NEED anything from you all except to feel loved and to be treated with respect.


maybe they are afraid that we make more money than they do and just don't want to admit it.


The male ego! Who can understand it?

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