Single and free?

hi ther all you helpfull peeps.I have yet another situation i find myself in. The prob is that im single,independent and free yet (the friends) are a issue.especially the guys they freak out when i like a guy outside of our click. They simply scare the poor guy off. i have told them I dnt need thier protection and that they should just give me a break. since most of them have girlfreinds and i dnt interfer in their lovelives. They say they just looking out for me but how can i be with someone if there is no one to be with. Am I to remain single forever??????

Single and free?
they shouldnt be doing that to you. you have every right to date who you want to regardless if they are in ur click or not. Maybe try hanging out with the guy u like and his friends first for a while then once u build a good relationship bring him around ur friends. tell them that u appreciate thier friendship and you know they have good intentions but they are NOT DATING the guy ur with and u would apriciate it if they would just mind their business.... just a little. or at least be civil when u bring a guy around.... its almost like they think their to good for outsiders of their click... good luck!
Reply:Your friends may be looking out for you, but their protectiveness is going to get in the way of you developing a good relationship with anyone else. If all of your friends in your clique are dating, and they are dating someone else in the clique, there really is no one else for you to like except to look at out side recourses. Take a close look though, is it possible that your male friends have feelings for you? Maybe they are jealous.


Good luck, hope you find a guy that makes you happy.
Reply:You should let your friends know that you have a life and is willing to look for someone.I hope they understand.
Reply:Am I to remain single forever?????? No


well give me ur ph no and add I will come (just kidding)


well you will find some one .....


for the world you are nobody


but for somebody you are the world....


all the best
Reply:There are many people.....go out and you will find someone...
Reply:Why don't you try "dating" or "seeing" a guy outside the circle of friends. Why don't you spend quality time with your new man getting to know each other before introducing him to your friends - that way you both know wot you want and it won't matter wot anyone else says or thinks you'll both be able to overcome it together as a couple.


I'm not saying dis ur friends at all cos they sound like very good friends who r looking out for you but you can't let ppl rule yours or anyone else's life.


Good luck hun
Reply:You know? I actually thought this too. but I'll tell you somthing. I keep my girlfriends away from my friends that are girls. My friends that are girls are like that, They try and scare them off, now i have heard that most of them like me from various others, maybe that is the case with you? Maybe a lot more of your Guy friends like you than you think? I would say stick to your girl's that are friends when you begin dating a new guy, then gradually settle them in with your guy friends.





Or maybe someone outside of your click doesn't mesh well with other's, i mean when i have a new girlfriend and she wants to take me out to meet her guy friends, i'm the type of guy that can get along with anyone, Mind you, I have piercings, Tattoo's, I dress like a punk rocker and i have wild hair, but these people i think are just intimidated by me, when really in the end they end up becoming a good friend of mine, I mean my best guy friend in the world is a straight up, just got out of college frat boy(litterally he was in a frat house for 4 years) My advice to you? Find someone that you would think would be like this, as in getting along with anyone, he may even be shy like me at first, but once you get to know him? its smooth sailing :)