Single and not loving it?

im in my 20's and still single and im sick of being single...i need some serious help...got any ideas how to break my this bad luck of mine? i tried everything and im a bit anti-social until i get to know someone

Single and not loving it?
if you are not happy single, then you aren't necessarily going to be happy just because you have a girlfriend. If you are really in your 20's then you are too young to have a girlfriend. You should be dating a lot of different girls and remain single. I saw a quote today I liked Happiness is not a destination, it is the way.
Reply:well you could talk to some girl online near ur area, just a suggestion
Reply:danggggg!!! I love someone a lot but I'm not sure if he still likes me...
Reply:you got to learn patience
Reply:Well its going to take more than "Single and Not loving it" to find a cure. I am sure that is not enough information to go on and being 20 and single is not a crime.





If by single you mean you want sex and someone to have it with then look on line I am sure there is some hungry 40 year old who would love to pop your cherry.





Not the case? Well then you can work with what you have. You can't be selfish either and socialize with people on your terms. What those are I am not sure of, but try to find out what the kids your age are doing and go out and do it (With the exception of drugs and alcohol) Like wall climbing is fun, or canoing on the weekends, hiking, biking. People like to socialize with other people with hobbies. Then its not hard you talk about the same interest. You meet people quick and they introduce you to people and so on and on.





I personally like to cook so I have dinners often and invite people over to share the experience. Top Chef is a favorite of mine...





Find out who you are and what you love then you can start thinking about involving a female person.
Reply:There are plenty of bitchy girls out there. Try and nuture your common anti-social interests with one.
Reply:Don't even worry about it. Keep on doing what's important and before long, they'll come knocking. Sometimes when you least expect.





Good Luck!
Reply:Do you really want a partner or is that what you "should" be doing by that age?
Reply:If you tried every thing ,except socializing , then you have to start ,that is the most important one on meeting your love intention. Don't believe in bad luck, what ever you do ,if you have the will,there is a way.
Reply:The harder you try to find the right person, the harder it will be to. Just try to go out with your friends and have fun.Without looking, you will someday meet the right one and you will know she is it.Just let God know that you are lonely and he will send her to you. Don't rush marriage though.You've only been single 20 years so far. Marriage is for the rest of your life.
Reply:have you tried online dating before?? usually i wouldn't present this as an option, but it will give you being shy an opportunity to know someone a little before meeting them
Reply:go out and make friends
Reply:I think I've found the girl for you . . .





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Hey, just kidding.


You probably just need to talk to people more and be a little agressive.
Reply:Go to a party and meet people, it works best if you try to be outgoing and show people you like that you are interested, not too much but just enough. You have nothing to loose if you just met them that day.
Reply:Get out of your comfort zone. Don't be anti social around people you don't know. Force yourself to be outgoing even if you fall on your face.





What will happen when you force yourself to be outgoing is that you will fall on your face a couple of times, but then you will realize that it wasn't that bad and then being outgoing will be more natural. When it is more natural then things will flow better and you will make friends easier.
Reply:it's not bad luck ,try putting a aide in the paper. it works!!.
Reply:i know your situation all too well.





considered dating sites? they suck, but might be worth a try.





stay positive and focused.
Reply:Join a social club thats related to your hobby. You'll have the opportunity to meet new people and learn to get along.
Reply:lol--Been there done that..I used to hate being single too..





I was/still is HOT MAMACITA..now got a man..so..I been thru your pain..


But got to admit..had a lot of FREE DINNERS for ONE YEAR of my OLD SINGLE OUT@


lol


Look at bright side..no what if..or reporting what ur doing etc..


just kick it..and enjoy it..I honestly prefer being in relationship than single..Since..I was a single mama..and most men don't date..or dig a single mom..it was harder for me..


but I got lucky and found someone that does not judge me..


Plus..I been told look good for a mom lol


Hell..being single sucks more than anything..i prefer being old person than singel ever again omg..


I had some HORROR dates of hell ..but got to admit ONLY thing I did like was FREE FOOD..FREE MOVIES FREE LUNCH FREE FOR NOTHING..ha ha..


I think I been to almost all of resteraunts in whole city ha ha..


Sorry..But most women just want nice dinner and night with there dildo..with all STD'S not worth the drama or getting knocked up again lol..





haha