Thursday, August 19, 2010

Single mom's please?

I search for single parents on a local chatline and if I feel connected to this mum, I ask for her bank details and deposit money into her account. Today I met a single mom with a little daughter of 3 and who turns 4 this week. She wanted to give the girl little ear rings but couldn't afford it. Well I joked and turned her arm untill she gave me her details, and when I told her what I did, she just started crying and said there aren't people like me around. I must admit the feeling of doing something nice for somebody gives me a feeling that I can't explain in words. Am I doing the right thing? Because it sure feels great. Your opinion will be appreciated.

Single mom's please?
Well that is sweet. But I dont know if I would give out my bank details. I mean sure I could use the money. Right now my band account is -$500 thanks to my theiving druggie husband who I just kicked out. With 2 kids to support I could use some extra cash. I would do paypal instead. You sound like a nice guy, stay that way.
Reply:you are fool by her.... honestly...


I thought you are smarter than that...lol
Reply:I would say it depends on what your motives are. If you are truly doing these things to help people, and it makes you feel good, not because you have another agenda, then go for it! I wish I would have had someone around like you when I was a single mother!
Reply:Please tell me that you are kidding. Some single mom


SURELY DID NOT give you her bank information. OMG! Why not mail her a check or cash. Something is fishy here.
Reply:Giving is great.





Soliciting bank info for any reason is not.





Soliciting my opinion reveals motivations that are not so honest or innocent.





Now I don't know you. And maybe you are a nice person. But you go about it the wrong way. Cultivate friends. Give to charities. But don't think that giving earrings to women's kids redeems you. Something is wrong. Really.





You ask my opinion. And I am just an average opinion.
Reply:let me get this right.. you got her to tell you this info so you could give her money.. right...... ok santa.. let me give you my list??
Reply:i think you are setting yourself up in a bad place. assuming that all your doing is giving, you still should not have that info about these people, if something happened you are suspect.


though what you describe just doesnt sound like the whole story to me anyway.
Reply:you stole money? what? im confused
Reply:First of all you met a woman who had a child and it was going to be her birthday and the mom couldnt give the child what she wanted and if you helped her out that made you feel great to brighten up that childs life. and belive me your rewards are about to come.





keep on keeping on just be careful out there.


best of luck
Reply:Helping those in need is a right thing to do but to ask for someones bank account is not acceptable. Its risk and people would take it that you are a con woman trying to rob them what they have in there bank account. If you have to help someone, don't ask for bank accounts information or any sensitive information which is actual seen as invading someone privacy.
Reply:Well....it is a good deed, as long as you expect NOTHING in return from her. And I think you should be very careful and you should not be asking strangers for their bank information!!!! Huge mistake. I'm sorry but your gesture seems genuine, you sound more like an online predator.
Reply:Are you looking for burnable single mothers, to take advantage of or are you looking for a single mother to take advantage of the child...You sound fake and creepy to me.





Or are you plane stupid.





I'm going to put you in my wipe out list...Ho Ho Ho
Reply:Watch out for this guy.

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