Single people!!?

I want to ask all the singles out there if they are truely happy being on their own? im single and starting to feel the pangs of wanting be with someone, what do you all do when your friends are with their other halves and do you crave for someone or are you happier on your own?

Single people!!?
I am a single, independent, 25yr old female, have had a few non-serious relationships but nothing serious. I love the single life, i have both single and non-single friends so its no problem always finding someone to hang about with. I find it easy to get on with men and women so have no trouble chatting to people. I also think its great when my friends whinge about their partners as i dont have these problems! I think the happy singles are those who are independent and dont need anyone to rely on and so are happy in their own skin. Also being single has helped me to reflect on myself as a person and my career and life.
Reply:I am Happy-soloing, because what is the alternative?


I WAS in a "commited relationship" until the bottom fell out of that situation. Myself being a DUTCHMAN, I naturally see every cup as 1/2 full because I have seen *the other view* and I don't like it!


What I "DO" is stay active in many Volunteer opportunities (church, civic, other) that does keep me lekker busy.


I am a Substitute Teacher as the kids teach me so much!
Reply:I have been single for a very long time and I like it, there are times when I think it would be nice to have a partner but until the right man comes along then I'm happy as I am.
Reply:just deal with it and have patience. fill ur time alone with other things and look at the positives in being out of a relationship (mind u there's not much else to do bt wait on)
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Reply:find another hobby or project ..pining doesnt help ... you need to be in a positive frame of mind for when you do bump into that special person.





whichever side ur sitting on single or married.. people generally want the other .. grass is alwasy greener blah blah





its good being alone .. find time pamper yourself, find yourself , who you are, where you want to be.... contingency plans are good
Reply:i am not happy realiy single
Reply:I am like you, sometimes I feel I need to be with someone , other times I feel like it's better being alone, because there are no hassels,
Reply:I am single and truly happy, however, God made men and women to naturally want to be with each other, so the feelings of wanting to get married and be with the opposite sex is to be expected at one time or another.





This doesn't mean that you should just go with your emotions, but that you should seriously consider if you are ready to handle all that comes with having a relationship and even marriage since that is the next step after dating. Personally, I would love to be married but I still have to become relatively stable financially and I also have to learn how to yield to the requests of others. These are 2 of the many traits (like trust, open communication, and like worship) that makes a relationship and marriage successful.





I just moved and don't have any close friends here, but before I moved, the people I hung out with were either single, seperated, or divorced. I never really invited my married friends to hang out since they were always busy with one another, and I also didn't want the wife to bring her husband since I often did the "girls night out" thing (men not preferred).
Reply:I can keep myself amused, I've always been a bit of a loner! But having someone to play with is always fun :-)
Reply:At the end of the day, being single sucks.
Reply:Humans are incomplete without companionship - especially long-standing and meaningful ones. That is why marriage has been a mainstay of EVERY CULTURE around the world for thousands of years. Hope you give up the ideas of the single-lifestyle as being good for you and seek someone for long-term relations; that will bring you the highest levels of joy. Good luck.
Reply:when your single u wanna be with someone. when your with someone you wanna be single. just enjoy life u only get one chance.
Reply:i think it is nice being with someone... u get a better sense of security.
Reply:I was single for 10 years and I learned to love it. Sure, occassionally during the holidays or when I would receive wedding invitiations I might feel a little lonely, but all in all, I really learned to appreciate being single. I think it's at that moment that you finally accept it, you might even actually meet someone. Enjoy it while you can! No one to answer to (meaning, checking in every day) and you can follow your dreams w/out feeling held back in any way shape or form. Embrace it, make it the most beautiful time in your life. No one needs a partner to feel complete. Learn to feel complete on your own.
Reply:i am fine being single, because other people dont make u camplete, u already r, u just trick urself into thinking u r incomplete
Reply:At the moment I am loving it but I have only been single a few months after a 6 year relationship
Reply:When I was single I was happy. Nothing tied me up. No one could upset me. But having children I wouldn't want to go into it by myself, I am happy that I found John though. It just depends on if you are good at being independent.
Reply:not really I'm single by choice the choice of others to decide not to go out with me. if my Friends are with their other half's i amuse myself
Reply:it hurts and no I'm not happy you can only eat an apple whole if you only eat half you ll crave for the other half sooner or later
Reply:It is normal to want to connect with someone on a deeper level. Do what makes you happy.





I crave sometimes, we all do.
Reply:i feel weird not being with someone.
Reply:I don't do anything. Or, I look at how miserable some -or most- couples are. I look at how they're always fighting and how they both try to get away when they're too bored being with each other and i think to myself, hmmm, I think I'm happier single. Sure, sometimes it's nice to have someone, but I think there are more negatives to being with someone than there are positives, UNLESS, you happen to find a soul mate, and I mean a real one.
Reply:Lonely being single, but if I was married I probably would want to be single. I think it works both ways
Reply:Well, the brief of my experience.


I have tried to be with someone and turned out to be a bastard so I moved out for a while and was struck by other different person but unfortuantely time proved that he is a bastard of another type.





Never been relaxing and contented as much as I am now.


Solo and enjoying.





Experience is my sweet bitter tutor.
Reply:I'm not single at the minute but I used to be which was kinda lonely sometimes... Just think though... You can do what you want, go out and have fun without worrying about your bf/gf..... Enjoy it while it lasts... One day you'll be married with kids and have days when you just wish you were single again.... Have fun!!!
Reply:i am ok being single


i am too young anyways
Reply:I am not single , but i can be on on my own if i want to , that is called having your own space , this is a must have in a relationship. but hey I've got free love on my side so i guess i am bi-est