Thursday, August 19, 2010

Why Am I still Single????? Lonly Condition?

So here I am, 24 years old, studying in Germany and have been here for a month. After over 2 years of being single I thought I could find someone here, it's been a month. I feel like crying I am so frustrated. When I go out to have a good time, I do that without love in mind, I am a well dresser, groomed, have so much to offer and am a very interesting person, am confident, but only see love finding other people. Like we were out one night and one guy who has been single hooked up right in front of me with this girl. I haven't dated nor had sex in over 2 years. I feel like I am a loser. I am 24 years old and am still single while everyone else is out hooking up and finding their soulmates. I feel like love has passed me. Everyone I see is in a relationship and when I think positively about being single I either get rejected or am reminded of how lonely this situation is. I am so frustrated and need some advice and tips on what to do. I know I was put here for a purpose.

Why Am I still Single????? Lonly Condition?
i'm sorry you feel that way. dont worry, you'll find your true soon. just dont give hope. there's someone out there for everyone and you'll find your special someone when you least expect it.


best wishes


good luck


= )


( i hope you find your true love soon )
Reply:Relax. Take a deep breath. Ok, you're not going to find anyone in a bar. (usually)-- why not try taking a class or a hobby. Do you like to paint, cook, or maybe an excercise club or other sporting event. Love will come, just relax. God has someone for you that's just perfect! So enjoy the single life and be patient.
Reply:dont give up be positive. love will find you when you least expect it. i spent 2 years on my own in my twenties and felt i was going to die a spinster but things change so quickly. perhaps try going to different types of places rather than the same sort. :)
Reply:Are you shy? do you look down or up when you walk? confidence makes all the difference. Maybe you are too self-conscious and thinking too much about being with someone. Being single is great too so enjoy it while it lasts. You are only 24 and you have a long time to find your soul mate. If you are looking now and really want to be with someone then spice up your confidence. Get a hair cut, change your clothes style a bit (not too dramatic but slowly change your trend), get fit if your not already, and get some facials or massage to relax you. Think about who you want to meet and remember positive thinking can make all the difference. Good Luck!
Reply:yur ugly thats why
Reply:The answer you seek will come to you naturally. im 30 years old and ive only just found love. well actually it found me!. but what i mean is, the harder you try, the more that will show when talking to girls. most girls dont like needy/desperate men. dont focus so much on finding love but meeting new friends and seeing how your relationships develop. then you will know when a girl is interested in you rather than coming on so strong. it will happen my friend trust me. you just need to be a little patient and try to play it cool.


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