Why am i single?

i'm not always that sad about being single, but i just had one of those weeks that made me realize how single i am, and that it sucks. two different people (female) this week asked about me having a boyfriend, and when i said i didn't, they seemed really suprised and asked why. to be honest, i really don't know. most would say i'm very likable, i'm kind, in specific area's VERY smart (ditzy in others(; ), i'm your average college girl, if you take an interest in me, i have my own attractive qualities. i just don't meet single guys. i go to a community college and noone talks to anyone else. most people are their stricktly to pass. and most people in my classes are female. it just doesn't seem right, i'm very dateable, with so many guys in the world, why am i still single.

Why am i single?
because your being smart and not forcing something that isn't there. If it was important, you would have one. I know that you say out loud that you wish you had one, but obviously your taking care of yourself and your goals first, theres nothing wrong with that.
Reply:i hate that feeling! its the fear of feeling like you do that keeps unsuccessful relationships together, because both man and woman fear being single again. it's normal but at the same time there's probably something you can do about it. take some initiative and dont wait for guys to come to you! its the modern world and women pick up guys almost as often as guys pick up women. if theres a guy you take an interest in, show him! youll be surprised how often youll receive positive results if you're confident enough when you go about it. trust me, if you think you deserve a good man in your life, and act on it when you see an opportunity to get a good man in your life, then the odds are, sooner or later you'll be on happy lady making all of her friends jealous. good luck, and get some initiative!
Reply:Because you haven't met me yet.
Reply:Doesn't sound like you aren't trying to be single, you should just take more action into what you want, I'm pretty sure you're an amazing individual, so just make things happen yourself, instead of waiting and wondering when someone is going to talk to you....
Reply:That's funny, I can relate because all my classes are male-oriented (think computer science.) But it's good to be picky.
Reply:don't worry, you will definitely get a person who loves you as you are so nice girl.
Reply:Do not brood over being single.For the best people the time strikes only at the right time and that too with best results. Simply wait for the right guy and you will get him without fail. All the best.
Reply:because you want to be single. your either not wasting time with the wrong person or just hoping he will talk to you first. I make an effort to meet everyone where I am, whether it be work a party or a bar, most people don't like, me, I'm opinionated and much more educated than my lack of college would show, I don't try to fit in, I just be myself.





What you should do is find something to do that allows you to meet the people that you are looking for. Only you know what that is, personally I go to chill bars, concerts (usually to bands I don't listen much/at all - as long as its tolerable to my music tastes, or its free), wine tastings are a good place to meet people.


Just talk to people everywhere you go, if nothing else you will meet some interesting people in your journey.
Reply:ha ive had the exact same type of week--realized how single i actaully am......eveyrone keeps telling me to wait, but ive done that for a pretty damn long time =/


well good luck. you'll find someone eventually .. maybe go out more to clubs, or museums, or somewhere where there are people---maybe even just a local park.. put yourself out there.
Reply:This is probably because u come on as. Not a school girl. i mean if u are ditzy. another reason mite be because you mite seem to " im to good for you" flirt a little





it will go a long way
Reply:You talk too much. You just need a good, deep dickin'.





Brandon
Reply:I don't see where you said you're making an effort to start conversations with classmates. No single guys? Well guess what...those girls know guys and those married guys in your class know single guys too. It's called NETWORKING, and you need to take advantage of it my friend. Now get out there and start talking to your classmates!
Reply:i've had those days too. but then i have those days where im glad im single lol.


but you said there arnt many guys at school to talk to...so you wont find any there, you have to go out places where you can talk to guys and find a bf that way...there are a lot of dateable single girls and guys out there they just havnt found the opportunity yet. doesnt mean you aren't good enough
Reply:Perhaps contemplating this all the time takes your attention to the point that you come off as not interested to anyone who would be interested. Also guys like girls to have self confidence they don't want to date someone who is always going to wonder if they think they are pretty, too fat, ugly. etc.. Trying relaxing and finding activities that will take ur mind off being single and have fun. Guys like girls that know how to have a good time as well. This will give guys a chance to approach you in a more relaxed enviroment..College is a stressful place anyways so its not always the best place to look for love.. But some local campus hangouts would be a good idea to start with.. Make friends with the female students I am sure they could also introduce you to some guys..
Reply:Your not trying hard enough. Make yourself available. Maybe online dating is your thing. Try sites like match.com or datearichguy.com haha.


Im sure you can find someone.....Dont be shy, make the first move. Ask a guy out. Its not hard.
Reply:Because you are not double or married..... but being single is GREAT!
Reply:you could be so pretty that you intimidate guys. Another reason you may not be able to find someone is because your trying too hard. The right guy will come to you.
Reply:You have to cast the line to catch a fish.
Reply:well, that's time when you have started to be not. not single is harder to be single. well you will find out and learn. good luck my girl
Reply:you sound like a perfect catch. im sure the right guy will come along someday. smiles





im very much in the same shoes you are, so i kinda know what you feel, but im more sad about other things i guess. :P
Reply:Its not as if you can run to the bf R US. Your single because you dont make yourself available, smile at guys you think are good looking. If they are single they will get the idea you are interested thus probably ask you out. I knew guys had this problem but with as many single guys out there, huh... OH and if your fat and ugly guys wont take an interest DONT HATE THE MESSENGER lol.





Then again.... lol i have seen some pretty unattractive women out there, that have bfs... Yeah i go back to what i said before, make yourself available. Smile and show interest.. Get out and do something some activity where there are guys, of course there is always the chance your really strange and guys just dont dig you because of that hehehe.





Good luck and SMILE SMILE SMILE, i like when a girl smiles.. a pretty face with a pretty smile, NICE!
Reply:Cause you are the special girl who will meet the special one