Would a single woman go for a single dad with 2 kids?

I am a single Dad with 2 girls to raise. I often meet women that either have kids or issues with their ex's. I am thinking of finding someone who is single but it worries me that I would just get turn down. I wanted to know, from a womans point of view, what they think of a man with extra baggage(like my situation) asking them out and if, this shouldn't be a point of consideration in my case.

Would a single woman go for a single dad with 2 kids?
You just have to find the right woman. I do understand where you are coming from though. I am a single mom with two kids, I have found men to have a relationship with but it is always in the back of my mind that they will not stick around because of my kids. I just think that take your time and the right woman will come along and it won't matter. I do think that women tend to worry about it a lot less than men do but it is scarry to think that they will end up in a relationship with a man and love them only to have their kids not like them at all. But i suppose that is true with men and women.
Reply:To me if you're nice and sweet and cool, I wouldn't mind dating you, but I'm 15, so I really can't sorry. But don't worry, I'm sure you will find someone. Good luck!
Reply:There are a lot of women in your spot, in fact there are single clubs for SINGLE Parents. Check it out you deserve a lady and your girls,a woman's influence Best of luck
Reply:I have 1 child from a previous marriage and my husband has 2 from his previous marriage. For me personally I got sick of dating guys who had no experience with kids and who viewed my child as baggage. People without children have no concept of what parenting entails. Look for a woman who has at least one child of her own.
Reply:OW MY GOODNESS YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT YOU WOULD BE A BLESSING TO SOMEONE YOUR RAISING YOUR KIDS AND NOT TO MANY MEN TAKE ON THAT RESPONSIBLITY MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND WHAT I THINK YOU SHOULD DO IS PRAY FOR GOD TO BRING THE RIGHT WOMAN INTO YOUR LIFE INSTEAD OF TRYING TO DO IT ON YOUR OWN FREE WILL ILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU TOO MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN AND CONGRAULATIONS ON BEING A GOOD MAN AND TAKING CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN WISH THERE WERE MORE MEN OUT THERE TO DO THAT YOU'LL HAVE MANY BLESSINGS AND IM SURE A GOOD WIFE WILL BE ONE OF THEM
Reply:I wouldn't mind dating an attractive mother who is divorced and left with 2 kids. But then again, the mother has lost her virginity to some guy and I wouldn't like that. The only girl I want to date is those virgins and she will lose her virginity to me after she gets married with me. So no, I wouldn't date a mother with 2 kids. I hate kids anyway.
Reply:It depends if the women likes kids and if she wants kids some day. I like kids and wish I could have another one. You just need to ask if they want to go out.
Reply:Well let me put it like this...If the girl loves u, she will accept ur two little girls and she will love them as equally as they are loved by their mother...So why don't u start asking out singles..If they turn u down because of ur daughters then that kind of women don't deserve to be part of ur life...GOOD LUCK
Reply:Why is it that the woman cannot have kids, but you can???? Isn't that a double standard? The people most interested in dealing with a man that has children usually have children of their own. When I was unmarried without children, I didn't want to deal with a man's children and his exes. There are some women out there that do not care about that, but I find it disturbing that she can't have kids. You want a woman without baggage but you want her to accept yours?
Reply:well see do she like you 2 girls or boys and if she don't go out with her
Reply:Children aren't extra baggage....I have dated several men with kids and we all would go out together and then there were times it would be just the 2 of us going out.
Reply:No one likes baggage, but there is hope. Don't focus on this so much, you will find someone who can meet your (for lack of a better word) requirements. Strong women without issues and drama are out there, there just hard to find when you're constantly looking.
Reply:My dad has 2 kids and he found a single women.
Reply:What is wrong with a woman having children?You will find the woman for you, and she will love everything about you including your girls like her very own. I think that its very sexy when a man is taking care of his children, shows what kind of person he has. Trust me you will find who you are suppose to be with. Always think of your daughter's first, I know you need someone in your life, but if they don't like anyone, there is a reason.
Reply:I would... single moms think that way too they have too much baggage so nobody will want them, or that's what my ex husband would tell me, but I know that is not true because I have someone now and they have kids... You will find that person one day just give it time and hang in there...
Reply:I think if a real connection is made then it wouldn't matter that you have kids. I think kids are great.
Reply:Every women is diffrent, I personally wouldn't make the children a big factor in a deccision on weatier or not i would date some one.. Hang in there the right person will come to you.. Godd luck and keep your head up.
Reply:Kids can be a real chick-magnet. I've never seen so many girls google my hubby as when he holds our daughter. Just make sure she's in love with you, not your lifestyle. There are a lot of single women who want the whole package and your current situation presents them with having a ready-made family. As long as you could handle your life well and have room for another woman, i don't see why that would be a turn off to a single gal.
Reply:If she loves you she would mine raise your 2 girls, but you should put your self in a women's shoes, would you date a women's who has 2 kids, why or why not. Most say no cuz they don't want to deal the the ex.
Reply:first of all your kids aren't baggage...and yes there are some women that would have a relationship with a man with children..maybe if you change your attitude you might meet someone really nice...if your going to make your children sound like they are in the way your the one making the problem..good luck
Reply:Lots of single women would but I personally would not suggest it. This women would not only have to deal with your children but also their mother. Everyone should get to (at least) start out with a fresh slate. However, if this women has children of her own, then it would be o.k.
Reply:I married a man with two kids from a previous marriage and we are very happy and have been for 21 yrs. I don't think that being a single dad should be a big factor in your finding a single woman. Some women do not wish to have children naturally and would love to be a step parent to anothers children.But you will run into people who do not wish to date other people with children, you just have to look over these people and keep on looking for the right one for you. This is not saying that it isn't going to be hard for the person to whom you have a relationship with, because some kids hold a lot of resentment for the new woman in their dad's life so try to help and understand her point of view and where she is coming from too. Good luck in your endeavors.
Reply:Some woman like men who have children, because it shows that you are a good daddy, and you care about your kids.


Some woman may not. because they are scared to get to attached to the children, and then when you two break it off then it will hurt the children as well.


In my eyes i would let any girl get close to your children at first until you know that that relationship is going to work.


Best of luck for you and your children.
Reply:You kids are not extra baggage. You are obviously a decent man - trust me, that alone is rare. You shouldn't really introduce your kids to the women you date until you think it might become more serious than casual dating. This will leave you free to date and explore and not worry about hurting your kids, while finding the quality woman you are looking for - one that loves you AND your girls! Good Luck!
Reply:Of course you should ask out women who don't have baggage. It does take a strong woman to take on not only your children but your ex as well. You need to be extra considerate of anyone you date who would be overwhelmed by your situation. Break em' in easy. My husband has 2 kids by 2 different moms.... it's struggle, but I love him and it's worth it.
Reply:I would never date a man with kids. Life and relationships are hard enough without adding in someone elses ready made family. Plus your money that should be going towards your wife will be going to your baggage from the past. I would never deal with it.
Reply:If you got $$$$$, then the kids come it second...
Reply:i don't think it should matter, but that is my opinion.
Reply:I think you should go for what ever makes you happy. Just understand having kids is luggage too
Reply:if there is chemistry and if they like each other and if she has kids that would be good so the children could get to kno each other
Reply:Woman are a lot more understanding then you think. Just be honest, and don't move to fast.